Having
sex outside the comfort of one's home is always a bit risky — and
inherently thrilling. What follows is a list of the unique and
unexpected locations where readers have gotten lucky. Read on and get
inspired to find your own naughty nook, cranny or appliance on which to
get busy.
1. Corn Field. A few survey-takers shared that their local cornfield
is the zaniest place they've ever had sex. Apparently these readers
have never seen those Children of The Corn movies. Corny — maybe ...
freaky — definitely.
2. Cemeteries. Several readers revealedthat
they've gotten it on amid the dead. Knocking boots on final resting
places is certainly unusual — and also anexcellent idea for those
looking to bringhome a curse along with their climax.
3. The City
Dump. One very adventurous reader confessed to having done the deed at
where else but the local dump. Let's hope both parties had their tetanus
shots going into this rendezvous. One might call thistrashy, but hey,
we think it would be ashame to put all that sexual energy to waste.
4. Jungle Gym. A few readers listed thejungle gym or swing set as the
craziest place they've gotten laid. One specifiedthat it took place at
his/her old elementary school. And no, we're not kidding.
5. In the
car ... while driving. Talk about sex drive ... a few readers admitted
to having "kicked it" while in the car. And not just road head but
full-on intercourse. For legal reasons wehave to say we do not at all
endorse trying this at home or elsewhere — although doing this at home
with your car safely parked in your garage could be the only good time
to even think about trying this one.
6. Outhouse. We thought it was a
loadof crap but really, one reader admitted to doing the deed in a
latrine. All we can say is this gives dirty talk a whole new meaning.
7. Telephone booth. The ultimate booty call! And, good for these folks
because what else are people using telephone booths for these days?
8. In a cupboard. Two questions surely on everyone's lips here: How? And then, why?
9. On a stove. Some like it hot! And really, can it get much steamier
than a stove-top sex sesh? Is this a recipe for sex-cess or a kitchen
disaster? We'll let you decide.
10. In a hospital operating room.
We'reguessing this "patient" was so lovesick that he/she needed a little
sexual healing. Hey, whatever works...
Tuesday, 2 July 2013
How I Was Kidnapped, Raped For Rejecting Love Advances – UNILAG Student
This story has left me speechless. Our youths need a revival.
Policemen attached to Adeniji Adele division have arrested a 22-
year-old man who alleged kidnapped and raped a student of the University of Lagos, UNILAG, Akoka, for turning down his
advances.
The suspect, Babajide Bashorun, was also alleged to have taken
nude shots of his victim (names withheld) and pasted them on
the internet with her real name, school, department and age.
But the suspect in an interview with Vanguard claimed that the
lady was his girlfriend. He admitted to have taken her nude
pictures and gave them to his friends whose identities he gave as
Aje Mayowa and Babajide Ademuyiwa, both final year students of Architecture also of UNILAG.
The incident, as gathered, occurred two months ago at 1, Ajose Street, Enu-Owa area of Lagos Island. But the female
undergraduate was silent over the matter until her relations
abroad who stumbled on the nude pictures on the internet
contacted her mother in Nigeria, last week.
How it started
Narrating how the incident occurred, the female undergraduate
said: “Babajide came to our house to treat our dog. In the
process, he requested for my phone number and I reluctantly
gave him. He started calling me and told me he would like to go
out with me.
“But I told him I already had a boyfriend whom I loved. Yet, he
kept calling me, saying he was not interested in just going out
with me but wanted to marry me. Aside that, he kept monitoring
my movements and at a point, I deleted his contact on my phone.
“I was returning home for a weekend in April , a car stopped by my side at Idumota bus-stop. Jide was sitting beside a driver
who was unknown to me.
“On sighting him, I walked past. But the next thing he did was to
hold me by the hand, dragged me into the car and drove to his
house.
“When he got home, he started beating me and tore my clothes,
asking what I wanted that he could not give me. He instructed
me to unlock my phone and when he discovered that I used my
boyfriend’s name as password, he resumed the beating.
“At a point, he gave me his phone to speak with some of his
friends who told me I was in for trouble, for turning down a
member of their unnamed cult, threatening that they would kill
me for treating him shabbily.
“Thereafter, he raped me and when he was done, his friend took
his turn despite my plea. When he saw I was bleeding, he
stopped and started begging me. At that point, he brought out
his phone and started taking my nude pictures. I made attempt
to cover my face but he hit me on the head with a bottle and
continued taking the shots.
How I escaped
“I begged him to allow me call my mother to give him some
money for my release but he refused. I also appealed to him to
delete my pictures when he started begging me.
“I stayed in that room all night till the next day when he went out
to get me some drugs. Immediately he stepped out, I tried the
door and discovered it was not locked from outside. I quickly
changed into one of my dirty clothes in my bag and escaped.
“But I could not tell anyone at home. When my elder brother
asked what the problem was on seeing the blood stained clothes,
I told him I was involved in an accident and when my mother
insisted on knowing what the problem was, I told her I fought
with a course mate. She insisted on going to school with me on
seeing the magnitude of the injury but I prevented her.
“Barely had I settled down than Babjide called, threatening to kill
me if I disclosed what happened to anyone. As if that was not
enough, his friends also called and threatened me as well.”
She is my girlfriend — Suspect
However, on his part, Babjide claimed that the undergraduate
was his girlfriend, adding that they only had a fight on that fateful
day.
Expressing shock over his arrest, he said: “She is my girlfriend.
We only fought in April and have resolved the matter.
“What led to the fight was her request for money to buy an IPad
which cost over N100,000. Because of my love for her, I
managed to raise N70,000. She visited me on that day and I
advised her to change her way of living which included going to
club .
I also accused her of flirting with other men. Along the line, we
started fighting and I used a mop stick to hit her and in the
process , took shots of her and sent the pictures to my friends.
But I did not tell them to paste the pictures on the internet.”
Police sources hinted that efforts were on to arrest Mayowa and
Ademuyiwa alleged to have pasted the victim’s nude pictures on
the internet, while Babajide had been charged to court for
kidnapping, rape, conspiracy, attempt to commit murder,
indecent assault, and assault occasioning harm.
Source: Vanguard
Friday, 14 June 2013
Food Vendor Runs Mad After Confessing To Using Mortuary Water To Cook Food
A woman (Names witheld) who is the owner of a popular buka in
Portharcourt confessed last Saturday to using diabolical means to
entice customers, as well as take their "destinies."
According to eye witnesses, the woman, who is from Akwa Ibom,
suddenly ran mad while at her buka located at Aleto in Eleme Local
Government area of Port-Harcourt, Rivers state. They say she
suddenly started acting bizarre, tore her clothes and started
confessing how she employed diabolical means for the growth of
her business.
In her confession, she said she mixes water used to bathe corpses
with her food, as well as water from her private part and
menstruation blood. She said she did all these to attract customers
whose "destinies" she used for the growth of her business and
riches. She then ran around town naked, confessing her atrocities,
appearing to have lost her sanity.
The news of her confession spread around the area, and some of
her customers (including Okada men) and angry onlookers
descended on her and gave her the beating of her life, before Police
men intervened and took her away.
Portharcourt confessed last Saturday to using diabolical means to
entice customers, as well as take their "destinies."
According to eye witnesses, the woman, who is from Akwa Ibom,
suddenly ran mad while at her buka located at Aleto in Eleme Local
Government area of Port-Harcourt, Rivers state. They say she
suddenly started acting bizarre, tore her clothes and started
confessing how she employed diabolical means for the growth of
her business.
In her confession, she said she mixes water used to bathe corpses
with her food, as well as water from her private part and
menstruation blood. She said she did all these to attract customers
whose "destinies" she used for the growth of her business and
riches. She then ran around town naked, confessing her atrocities,
appearing to have lost her sanity.
The news of her confession spread around the area, and some of
her customers (including Okada men) and angry onlookers
descended on her and gave her the beating of her life, before Police
men intervened and took her away.
School proprietor caught having sex with 11-year-old pupil
Residents of Agric Olope area of Ado Ekiti have apprehended the
proprietor of a private Nursery and Primary School, who was
found in a bush allegedly having sex with a pupil of his school.
The incident happened on Monday after school hours.
Our correspondent gathered on Wednesday that the proprietor,
identified as Mr. Tunde Ibitoye, picked the girl and another
pupil of the same school and was taking them home in his car
when he stopped at a deserted place and went into the bush
pretending to be defecating.
An eyewitness, who said he caught the suspect in the act, said
some minutes after the man went inside the bush, he called the
victim to bring him tissue to clean up.
The eyewitness, who identified himself as Kayode Ayeni, said he
became curious when he saw the girl going inside the bush
knowing full well that a man had first gone into the bush some
minutes earlier.
He said he traced the girl's movement and found the man half
naked and the girl also undressed and was in a compromising
position.
Ayeni claimed that the proprietor was having carnal knowledge
of the girl when he found the two of them inside the bush.
The argument between the eyewitness and the proprietor was
said to have attracted a crowd of passersby and residents to the
scene.
The suspect was said to have been beaten up and escaped being
lynched due to the arrival of some policemen at the scene.
The policemen, who stormed the scene,dispersed the crowd
and took the suspect away.
When contacted, the state command's Police Public Relations
Officer, Mr. Victor Babayemi, said Ibitoye had been arrested for
"defiling an 11-year-old pupil," adding that the suspect was
currently being interrogated by the police
The PPRO said the girl told police investigators that the
proprietor had sex with her.
He added that the girl confessed that the last act was the fourth
time the proprietor would be having sex with her.
He also said the girl's father told the police that there was a time
he noticed blood stain on his daughter's clothes but the man
thought it was early menstruation.
The proprietor, however, insisted that he did not have sex with
the girl but was just assisting her home after the school hours.
But Babayemi said the girl had been taken to a hospital for
medical examination, saying the result would be made public
when it was out.
Babayemi said, "There is a man in our custody who was said to
be caught while having sex with an 11-year-old pupil. The girl
has been taken to hospital for examination and we are expecting
the result.
"We are investigating to see if we can find other girls who the
man might have defiled. If we find any, it would further
corroborate the allegation. But we advise parents to alway
ensure that their children are put in custody of responsible
people."
proprietor of a private Nursery and Primary School, who was
found in a bush allegedly having sex with a pupil of his school.
The incident happened on Monday after school hours.
Our correspondent gathered on Wednesday that the proprietor,
identified as Mr. Tunde Ibitoye, picked the girl and another
pupil of the same school and was taking them home in his car
when he stopped at a deserted place and went into the bush
pretending to be defecating.
An eyewitness, who said he caught the suspect in the act, said
some minutes after the man went inside the bush, he called the
victim to bring him tissue to clean up.
The eyewitness, who identified himself as Kayode Ayeni, said he
became curious when he saw the girl going inside the bush
knowing full well that a man had first gone into the bush some
minutes earlier.
He said he traced the girl's movement and found the man half
naked and the girl also undressed and was in a compromising
position.
Ayeni claimed that the proprietor was having carnal knowledge
of the girl when he found the two of them inside the bush.
The argument between the eyewitness and the proprietor was
said to have attracted a crowd of passersby and residents to the
scene.
The suspect was said to have been beaten up and escaped being
lynched due to the arrival of some policemen at the scene.
The policemen, who stormed the scene,dispersed the crowd
and took the suspect away.
When contacted, the state command's Police Public Relations
Officer, Mr. Victor Babayemi, said Ibitoye had been arrested for
"defiling an 11-year-old pupil," adding that the suspect was
currently being interrogated by the police
The PPRO said the girl told police investigators that the
proprietor had sex with her.
He added that the girl confessed that the last act was the fourth
time the proprietor would be having sex with her.
He also said the girl's father told the police that there was a time
he noticed blood stain on his daughter's clothes but the man
thought it was early menstruation.
The proprietor, however, insisted that he did not have sex with
the girl but was just assisting her home after the school hours.
But Babayemi said the girl had been taken to a hospital for
medical examination, saying the result would be made public
when it was out.
Babayemi said, "There is a man in our custody who was said to
be caught while having sex with an 11-year-old pupil. The girl
has been taken to hospital for examination and we are expecting
the result.
"We are investigating to see if we can find other girls who the
man might have defiled. If we find any, it would further
corroborate the allegation. But we advise parents to alway
ensure that their children are put in custody of responsible
people."
Police Kill Three At University Of Uyo Over N200 Transport Fees
Several sources have told SaharaReporters the Nigerian
police in Uyo, capital of Akwa Ibom State, today shot
dead three protesting students at the University of Uyo.
One of our sources said he was certain only of one
casualty, but the other said the figure was higher.
Several sources disclosed that the students were
demonstrating against the introduction of transport fees.
Eyewitnesses said a peaceful procession on campus
turned violent, leading to the burning down of the vice
chancellor’s office located at Ikpa Road in Uyo.
“At least three students were shot and killed by the
police,” said a student source. He added that the police
contingent had been brought in to quell the uprising.
Unconfirmed reports said university officials have closed
down the school indefinitely after the protests that turned
violent.
An eyewitness told SaharaReporters that the protest was
started by engineering students protesting the
introduction of fares for the school bus shuttle. The
school earlier moved the engineering faculty and the
faculty of sciences from the town campus to the
permanent site at Nsukara Offot. “The distance between
the two locations is very far,” said the source. He added:
“Before now the school provided buses that shuttled
between the two campuses of the university, and the bus
service was free to all students. Now this morning the
students woke up to the announcement that a fee of 100
naira has been fixed for the bus services.”
Our source disclosed that the fares infuriated students
who afterwards mobilized for a peaceful protest. He said
the university officials then brought in policemen to
break up the protest. Two of our sources accused the
police of using excessive show of force against the
unarmed protesters.
“They started firing teargas, and this made the students to
respond by turning violent. The students started hurling
whatever objects, they could lay their hands on at the
police and blocked all the entrances and exits locations
in the school,” said one of the sources.
The sources said the protesters were stunned that the
police fired live ammunition at them. They said the irate
students then burnt down the VC’s office, other nearby
buildings and the school gate.
When SaharaReporters contacted the Akwa Ibom State
Police Public Relation Officer, Effiong Dickson by
telephone he said the police contingent sent to quell the
riot did not enter the campus but admitted that when the
student came out on the street, there was a skirmish as
police reportedly came under attack from students
“wielding sticks and throwing stones”. The PPRO stated
that there was no report of any killing from his colleagues
engaged in the operation. However, he said he had heard
rumors that one student was killed.
police in Uyo, capital of Akwa Ibom State, today shot
dead three protesting students at the University of Uyo.
One of our sources said he was certain only of one
casualty, but the other said the figure was higher.
Several sources disclosed that the students were
demonstrating against the introduction of transport fees.
Eyewitnesses said a peaceful procession on campus
turned violent, leading to the burning down of the vice
chancellor’s office located at Ikpa Road in Uyo.
“At least three students were shot and killed by the
police,” said a student source. He added that the police
contingent had been brought in to quell the uprising.
Unconfirmed reports said university officials have closed
down the school indefinitely after the protests that turned
violent.
An eyewitness told SaharaReporters that the protest was
started by engineering students protesting the
introduction of fares for the school bus shuttle. The
school earlier moved the engineering faculty and the
faculty of sciences from the town campus to the
permanent site at Nsukara Offot. “The distance between
the two locations is very far,” said the source. He added:
“Before now the school provided buses that shuttled
between the two campuses of the university, and the bus
service was free to all students. Now this morning the
students woke up to the announcement that a fee of 100
naira has been fixed for the bus services.”
Our source disclosed that the fares infuriated students
who afterwards mobilized for a peaceful protest. He said
the university officials then brought in policemen to
break up the protest. Two of our sources accused the
police of using excessive show of force against the
unarmed protesters.
“They started firing teargas, and this made the students to
respond by turning violent. The students started hurling
whatever objects, they could lay their hands on at the
police and blocked all the entrances and exits locations
in the school,” said one of the sources.
The sources said the protesters were stunned that the
police fired live ammunition at them. They said the irate
students then burnt down the VC’s office, other nearby
buildings and the school gate.
When SaharaReporters contacted the Akwa Ibom State
Police Public Relation Officer, Effiong Dickson by
telephone he said the police contingent sent to quell the
riot did not enter the campus but admitted that when the
student came out on the street, there was a skirmish as
police reportedly came under attack from students
“wielding sticks and throwing stones”. The PPRO stated
that there was no report of any killing from his colleagues
engaged in the operation. However, he said he had heard
rumors that one student was killed.
Wednesday, 12 June 2013
THINGS women should never, ever, do
1.Do not start hanging out with single ladies
whole weekend wen u are married
2.Do not use sex as a weapon in marriage to get
what u want!
3. Do not wear a vest or sleeveless top without shaving your armpits
or without a bra underneath
4. Do not leave chipped nail polish
to wear off on its own, there's a
reason why they sell nail polish
remover.
5. If you can’t afford good quality
weaves, don’t bother.
6. Do not do artificial nails that
makes you look like a drama queen,
simple is always sexy.
7. See-through leggings or a top used as a dress when you are out in public is a hell-to-the-no!
8. Never do things for a man with
a hope of getting something in
return, expectations are
dangerous. Do it because you simply want to.
9. Never contradict what your man
says - in public.
10. Never stalk the man that left
you for the other woman
11. Do not share your best friend's personal life with every Tom, Dick and Harry.
12. Women should never act on
distress in relationships like
checking your man’s phone,
nagging him to death, and acting like a paranoid freak. You will
simply release him to someone else
by doing so.
13. Never dish out your entire
family drama on a first date. The
guy just wants to know about you.
14. Stop obsessing over your body.
It’s good to eat healthy and work
out but let's leave it at that.
15. Never over-accessorize. stop looking like a Christmas tree.
16. Never leave home without
lip gloss, your phone and most of
all, your dignity.
17. Never leave your used sanitary
towel in the toilet for the next person to see. Women please!
18. Never wear very high heels if
you can’t do the Naomi Campbell
walk. You look like a drunk
grasshopper.
19. Never wear short skirts and low cut tops when off to an interview. You will create the
wrong impression.
20. And finally, 'Never wish to be
like any other woman. There are
others out there envying you for who you are'
whole weekend wen u are married
2.Do not use sex as a weapon in marriage to get
what u want!
3. Do not wear a vest or sleeveless top without shaving your armpits
or without a bra underneath
4. Do not leave chipped nail polish
to wear off on its own, there's a
reason why they sell nail polish
remover.
5. If you can’t afford good quality
weaves, don’t bother.
6. Do not do artificial nails that
makes you look like a drama queen,
simple is always sexy.
7. See-through leggings or a top used as a dress when you are out in public is a hell-to-the-no!
8. Never do things for a man with
a hope of getting something in
return, expectations are
dangerous. Do it because you simply want to.
9. Never contradict what your man
says - in public.
10. Never stalk the man that left
you for the other woman
11. Do not share your best friend's personal life with every Tom, Dick and Harry.
12. Women should never act on
distress in relationships like
checking your man’s phone,
nagging him to death, and acting like a paranoid freak. You will
simply release him to someone else
by doing so.
13. Never dish out your entire
family drama on a first date. The
guy just wants to know about you.
14. Stop obsessing over your body.
It’s good to eat healthy and work
out but let's leave it at that.
15. Never over-accessorize. stop looking like a Christmas tree.
16. Never leave home without
lip gloss, your phone and most of
all, your dignity.
17. Never leave your used sanitary
towel in the toilet for the next person to see. Women please!
18. Never wear very high heels if
you can’t do the Naomi Campbell
walk. You look like a drunk
grasshopper.
19. Never wear short skirts and low cut tops when off to an interview. You will create the
wrong impression.
20. And finally, 'Never wish to be
like any other woman. There are
others out there envying you for who you are'
MANDELA’s QUOTEs
The world has continued to pray for the speedy recovery of
Nelson Mandela, who is being treated for a recurrent lung
infection in a Pretoria hospital. The South Africa government has
described the health condition of the country first black leader as
“serious but stable”.
Prince Ademola Ibrahim Mandela serves you some of Madiba’s quotes as the
anti-apartheid fighter ‘fights for his life’. You can make a pick of
your favourite quote(s) while you are also free to add your
favourite Mandela’s quote(s).
“I can rest only for a moment, for with freedom come
responsibilities, and I dare not linger, for my long walk is not yet
ended.”
“For to be free is not merely to cast off one’s chains, but to live in
a way that respects and enhances the freedom of others.”
“If you want to make peace with your enemy, you have to work
with your enemy. Then he becomes your partner.”
“Man’s goodness is a flame that can be hidden but never
extinguished.”
“I was made, by the law, a criminal, not because of what I had
done, but because of what I stood for, because of what I thought,
because of my conscience.”
“The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising
every time we fall.”
“When a man is denied the right to live the life he believes in, he
has no choice but to become an outlaw.”
“Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to
change the world.”
“I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the
triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid,
but he who conquers that fear.”
“I am fundamentally an optimist. Whether that comes from nature
or nurture, I cannot say. Part of being optimistic is keeping one’s
head pointed toward the sun, one’s feet moving forward. There
were many dark moments when my faith in humanity was sorely
tested, but I would not and could not give myself up to despair.
That way lays defeat and death.”
“A good head and good heart are always a formidable
combination. But when you add to that a literate tongue or pen,
then you have something very special.”
“It always seems impossible until it’s done.”
“Resentment is like drinking poison and then hoping it will kill
your enemies.”
“I am not a saint, unless you think of a saint as a sinner who
keeps on trying.”
“There is no passion to be found playing small – in settling for a
life that is less than the one you are capable of living.”
“No one is born hating another person because of the color of his
skin, or his background, or his religion. People must learn to
hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for
love comes more naturally to the human heart than its opposite.”
“If you talk to a man in a language he understands, that goes to
his head. If you talk to him in his language, that goes to his heart.”
“Do not judge me by my successes, judge me by how many times
I fell down and got back up again.”
“As I have said, the first thing is to be honest with yourself. You
can never have an impact on society if you have not changed
yourself… Great peacemakers are all people of integrity, of
honesty, but humility.”
“As I walked out the door toward the gate that would lead to my
freedom, I knew if I didn’t leave my bitterness and hatred behind,
I’d still be in prison.”
“It is said that no one truly knows a nation until one has been
inside its jails. A nation should not be judged by how it treats its
highest citizens, but its lowest ones.”
“A leader. . .is like a shepherd. He stays behind the flock, letting
the most nimble go out ahead, whereupon the others follow, not
realizing that all along they are being directed from behind.”
“We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, handsome,
talented and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be?”
‘I caught my husband in bed with neighbour’s wife’
A 39-year-old woman, Oluwatosin Abiodun, appeared before the
Agege Grade ‘A’ Customary Court, Lagos State, to seek the
dissolution of her 11-year-old marriage over allegations of battery,
infidelity and threat to life.
Oluwatosin, a trader who is resident at No 5, Bemil Street, Ojodu,
Lagos State, informed the court that she had never enjoyed her
marriage because her husband had made life unbearable for her.
She further added that her husband was unfaithful and slept
with their neighbour’s wife on their matrimonial bed.
“He didn’t make love to me for eight months. After we got
married, I was without an issue for five years. Life was
unbearable for me throughout this period.. I developed high
blood pressure in the process, but my husband felt unconcerned.
“It was hell on earth. I lived in fear, pains and anguish. I kept all
these to myself because I didn’t want my home to break.
“The worst was the fact that my husband was dating a
neighbour’s wife and even brought her to our matrimonial home
where I caught them pants down. He has gone further to marry
this woman.
“He was fond of beating me with iron rod. He pampered me when
I had our child, but he later went back to his former habit of
hitting me.
“I am tired of the marriage and I want the court to end the union
and grant me custody of our child,” she said.
Olatunji, an engineer, however failed to appear in court to defend
himself.
The court president, Mr Emmanuel Shokunle, adjourned the case
for further hearing.
Agege Grade ‘A’ Customary Court, Lagos State, to seek the
dissolution of her 11-year-old marriage over allegations of battery,
infidelity and threat to life.
Oluwatosin, a trader who is resident at No 5, Bemil Street, Ojodu,
Lagos State, informed the court that she had never enjoyed her
marriage because her husband had made life unbearable for her.
She further added that her husband was unfaithful and slept
with their neighbour’s wife on their matrimonial bed.
“He didn’t make love to me for eight months. After we got
married, I was without an issue for five years. Life was
unbearable for me throughout this period.. I developed high
blood pressure in the process, but my husband felt unconcerned.
“It was hell on earth. I lived in fear, pains and anguish. I kept all
these to myself because I didn’t want my home to break.
“The worst was the fact that my husband was dating a
neighbour’s wife and even brought her to our matrimonial home
where I caught them pants down. He has gone further to marry
this woman.
“He was fond of beating me with iron rod. He pampered me when
I had our child, but he later went back to his former habit of
hitting me.
“I am tired of the marriage and I want the court to end the union
and grant me custody of our child,” she said.
Olatunji, an engineer, however failed to appear in court to defend
himself.
The court president, Mr Emmanuel Shokunle, adjourned the case
for further hearing.
‘Sex hawking has given us fame, good tidings’
Commercial
sex hawkers in Edo State have said that nothing can stop them from what
they know how to do best; prostitution. According to the spokesperson
of the Association of Professional Prostitutes of Nigeria, Edo State
chapter, Miss Jessica Osas, the
business has given her and other members of the association good tidings and fame over the years.
Speaking with Community News, Miss Osas decried the recent outcry from their colleagues in Kaduna State, calling on the state government to help them, as they were no more interested in the
business.
Osas also told Community News that though their colleagues in
Kaduna have encountered some difficulties in recent times such
as incessant bombing and killing of innocent people in the
Northern part of the country, where people including their
customers could no longer walk freely in the night.
According to her, “in spite of their plights, they shouldn’t have
condemned the business just like that. I want to say loud and
clear that members of this association in Edo State are enjoying
our craft and we have no cause to regret.
“I was surprised when I heard the news that our colleagues in
Kaduna were appealing to the state government to rescue them
from of the business, saying that there is no more gains from it. I
laugh it off because I understand that their problems is that of the
Boko Haram.
“Three months ago, their leader called us to intimate us about the
happenings over there and we advised her on what to do in order
to boost their business as it was being done here in Benin. She
also came to Benin last month during the indoctrination of our
new members only to be telling us now that they wanted to quit
the business.”
Osas added that Kaduna State was where prostitution is most
lucrative compared to other states in Nigeria.
“My advice for them is, whoever wants to quit the job should
leave quietly without making noise. Our association is not a place
where you should first take oath before you become a member
and what we are doing is not written on our faces. If I didn’t tell
you (the reporter) would you know that I’m involved in the
business? No.
“Here in Edo State, some of our members are working in different
companies and they receive big salaries. Even, students from
various tertiary institutions across the state are fully registered
members of the association, but they do it on part time basis,”
Osas disclosed.
business has given her and other members of the association good tidings and fame over the years.
Speaking with Community News, Miss Osas decried the recent outcry from their colleagues in Kaduna State, calling on the state government to help them, as they were no more interested in the
business.
Osas also told Community News that though their colleagues in
Kaduna have encountered some difficulties in recent times such
as incessant bombing and killing of innocent people in the
Northern part of the country, where people including their
customers could no longer walk freely in the night.
According to her, “in spite of their plights, they shouldn’t have
condemned the business just like that. I want to say loud and
clear that members of this association in Edo State are enjoying
our craft and we have no cause to regret.
“I was surprised when I heard the news that our colleagues in
Kaduna were appealing to the state government to rescue them
from of the business, saying that there is no more gains from it. I
laugh it off because I understand that their problems is that of the
Boko Haram.
“Three months ago, their leader called us to intimate us about the
happenings over there and we advised her on what to do in order
to boost their business as it was being done here in Benin. She
also came to Benin last month during the indoctrination of our
new members only to be telling us now that they wanted to quit
the business.”
Osas added that Kaduna State was where prostitution is most
lucrative compared to other states in Nigeria.
“My advice for them is, whoever wants to quit the job should
leave quietly without making noise. Our association is not a place
where you should first take oath before you become a member
and what we are doing is not written on our faces. If I didn’t tell
you (the reporter) would you know that I’m involved in the
business? No.
“Here in Edo State, some of our members are working in different
companies and they receive big salaries. Even, students from
various tertiary institutions across the state are fully registered
members of the association, but they do it on part time basis,”
Osas disclosed.
TYPES OF FRIENDS TO AVOID
If
all your friend does is take from you, without giving anything back in
the friendship, there is no point in being friends anymore.
A good lover can complete you and make you feel alive.
And just like that, a good group of friends too, can motivate you and cheer you up.
But on the other hand, a few bad friends can drag you into the pits or ruin your life too.
Choose your friends carefully, and always make sure that the friends closest to you are the ones that can make life better for you, and not worse.
Types of friends to avoid
Here is a list of ten types of friends that you really need to avoid.
These toxic friends may seem like fun at times or even feel like
thrilling risk takers, but when the crap hits the fan, it’ll be you
under it.
The cheater
Many friendships have been crumpled and crushed, because a
best friend hit on a friend’s romantic partner.
To avoid making best friends with this type, avoid the sneaky
flirts, the sweet talkers and generally, people who try flattering you
and talking like you mean the world to them.
You’d be better off with someone who’s more true and down-to-
earth with their claims.
The competitor
Any kind of competition is healthy in every relationship but when
claws start to come out and things get extremely competitive
between friends, things can get very ugly.
The leech
A friend who constantly borrows your stuff or money or depends
too much on you is one that definitely needs to be avoided. No
one wants a one-sided relationship. If all your friend does is take
from you, without giving anything back in the friendship, there’s
no point in being friends anymore. If they’re looking for one, tell
them to take a one way trip out of your life.
The copycat
Imitation is considered to be the sincerest form of flattery, but a
friend who looks or behaves like your photocopy machine can be
very scary.
The shrink
All of us confide in our friends and ask for advice, but when your
BFF starts acting like a paid shrink who always picks flaws in your
life or relationships, it can get very annoying and depressing.
The selfish friend
This type of friend can go to any lengths for their benefit, but
behaves passively when you ask for help.
The wild child
Dangerous and unstable is how you define this type. You usually
get in trouble or always end up having to save your friend from
trouble.
The whiner
This type of friend is never satisfied with anything they have, and
they spend all their time whining and grumbling about how the
world is so unfair to them. Stay away!
The mood killer
This friend intentionally or unintentionally kills the mood as soon
as they enter into a conversation with you. They always seem to
find a flaw in anything you do or have, be it your clothes or your
love life.
They are like the lone dark cloud hovering over you on a sunny
day. Nothing positive ever comes out of their mouth.
They are never short of sarcastic comments or depressing
thoughts.
The swinger
This friend is partially bonkers because their mood swings change
from being nice to totally snappy in seconds without any
provocation. And this friend may just use you like a punching bag
to express their feelings, be it frustrations or happiness. Who
needs to be around someone whose moods swing like a
pendulum?
Life can be a bed of roses when you have the perfect friends to
share it with, but if you have to put up with these ten types of
friends, all you’d find is frustrations.
Spot the toxic friends in your life and stay away from them, for
your own good.
Courtesy: LovePanky
A good lover can complete you and make you feel alive.
And just like that, a good group of friends too, can motivate you and cheer you up.
But on the other hand, a few bad friends can drag you into the pits or ruin your life too.
Choose your friends carefully, and always make sure that the friends closest to you are the ones that can make life better for you, and not worse.
Types of friends to avoid
Here is a list of ten types of friends that you really need to avoid.
These toxic friends may seem like fun at times or even feel like
thrilling risk takers, but when the crap hits the fan, it’ll be you
under it.
The cheater
Many friendships have been crumpled and crushed, because a
best friend hit on a friend’s romantic partner.
To avoid making best friends with this type, avoid the sneaky
flirts, the sweet talkers and generally, people who try flattering you
and talking like you mean the world to them.
You’d be better off with someone who’s more true and down-to-
earth with their claims.
The competitor
Any kind of competition is healthy in every relationship but when
claws start to come out and things get extremely competitive
between friends, things can get very ugly.
The leech
A friend who constantly borrows your stuff or money or depends
too much on you is one that definitely needs to be avoided. No
one wants a one-sided relationship. If all your friend does is take
from you, without giving anything back in the friendship, there’s
no point in being friends anymore. If they’re looking for one, tell
them to take a one way trip out of your life.
The copycat
Imitation is considered to be the sincerest form of flattery, but a
friend who looks or behaves like your photocopy machine can be
very scary.
The shrink
All of us confide in our friends and ask for advice, but when your
BFF starts acting like a paid shrink who always picks flaws in your
life or relationships, it can get very annoying and depressing.
The selfish friend
This type of friend can go to any lengths for their benefit, but
behaves passively when you ask for help.
The wild child
Dangerous and unstable is how you define this type. You usually
get in trouble or always end up having to save your friend from
trouble.
The whiner
This type of friend is never satisfied with anything they have, and
they spend all their time whining and grumbling about how the
world is so unfair to them. Stay away!
The mood killer
This friend intentionally or unintentionally kills the mood as soon
as they enter into a conversation with you. They always seem to
find a flaw in anything you do or have, be it your clothes or your
love life.
They are like the lone dark cloud hovering over you on a sunny
day. Nothing positive ever comes out of their mouth.
They are never short of sarcastic comments or depressing
thoughts.
The swinger
This friend is partially bonkers because their mood swings change
from being nice to totally snappy in seconds without any
provocation. And this friend may just use you like a punching bag
to express their feelings, be it frustrations or happiness. Who
needs to be around someone whose moods swing like a
pendulum?
Life can be a bed of roses when you have the perfect friends to
share it with, but if you have to put up with these ten types of
friends, all you’d find is frustrations.
Spot the toxic friends in your life and stay away from them, for
your own good.
Courtesy: LovePanky
'Big Brother Africa Logo & Illuminati Seeing Eye Are Similar?
Well stories have been circulating for some time that the Big Brother Africa Logo is similar to the mysterious religio – economic entity Illuminati known for the all Seeing Eye as seen in the BBA logo.
Other similarities were pointed out in the diagram above.
What do you think?
Man Claims To Be Michael Jackson’s Gay-Lover
Scott
Thorson, Liberace’s former live-in boyfriend, shared private details of
his five-year romance with the flamboyant entertainer. Today, Thorson
drops a bombshell regarding Michael Jackson, claiming he and the King of
Pop shared an intimate, intimate relationship in the eighties.
“Michael and I had a relationship that… would cross the boundaries,” Thorson reveals in an exclusive sit down with ET’s Christina McLarty. “That’s about all I’m comfortable saying… We were both young.”
While he concedes that not many will believe that he and Michael were lovers, he says that the two became unlikely friends while he was dating Liberace. After a period of friendship, their relationship blossomed into more.
Thorson details his tumultuous relationship with the King of Pop and more in Behind the Candelabra: My Life with Liberace, a book he wrote in 1998 which is currently being adapted for the big screen featuring Matt Damon and Michael Douglas. He is presently penning a follow-up.
“Michael and I had a relationship that… would cross the boundaries,” Thorson reveals in an exclusive sit down with ET’s Christina McLarty. “That’s about all I’m comfortable saying… We were both young.”
While he concedes that not many will believe that he and Michael were lovers, he says that the two became unlikely friends while he was dating Liberace. After a period of friendship, their relationship blossomed into more.
Thorson details his tumultuous relationship with the King of Pop and more in Behind the Candelabra: My Life with Liberace, a book he wrote in 1998 which is currently being adapted for the big screen featuring Matt Damon and Michael Douglas. He is presently penning a follow-up.
Alleged Sexual Harassment of pregnant woman: Husband wants Prof’s appointment terminated
Dutse—The husband of the pregnant woman, Mrs, Bushira
Isyaku, who was allegedly sexually harassed by Professor
Festus David Kolo of Ahmadu Bello University, ABU, Zaria,
Malam Muhammad Isyaku, has asked the university to
terminate the appointment of the don.
A Chief Magistrate Court in Kiyawa Local Government Area
of Jigawa State sentenced Professor Kolo of the Faculty of
Education at Ahmadu Bello University, ABU, Zaria to two
months imprisonment last week for knowingly enticing a
married woman who was a student in his department
contrary to Section 389 of the penal code law.
Principal State Counsel, Mustapha Adamu, who read the
First Information Report, said that on May 21, one
Muhammad Ghali of Takur Quarters Dutse “reported you,
Prof. Festus David Kolo of ABU, knowing fully well that Mrs
Bushra Ghali Muhammed is his wife, and you have been
making advances towards her, inciting her, calling her
often, sending her love SMS messages using your phone…”
Adamu further said: “You, Prof. Kolo, was caught red
handed by the police at Dan Musa Guest House, Room
109 with Ghali’s wife after he reported the case to the
police and after several warnings and pleas by the
husband.’’
Malam Isyaku who spoke in an interview with Vanguard
yesterday said that the two-month imprisonment for the
66- year professor was too mild.
He argued that since the court had found him guilty of
committing the offence and sentenced him, he should
face dismissal from the university because of the integrity
of the institution.
Isyaku who is a lecturer with the Jigawa State Polytechnic,
stressed that dismissing Prof Kolo from the services of
ABU would serve as a deterrent to others who had formed
the habit of seeking to have a canal knowledge of their
females students.
’Though the two months sentence given to the convict by
the Kiyawa Chief Magistrate Court was less severe, but at
least it has sent a signal to lecturers who involve
themselves in such dirty behaviour that no body is above
the law,” he said.
He further said that he spoke with the Prof Kolo severally
on the telephone and even begged him to stop calling his
wife’s phone, but the he persisted and even visited his wife
in Dutse, Jigawa state where he was eventually
apprehended by security operatives
’’I asked professor Kolo if he knew that Bushira is a
married woman, he said yes, and I told him to please keep
off from her. He apologised but kept on calling my wife
who reported the matter to their class representative who
advised her to switch off her telephone,’’ he added.
He told Vanguard that his wife got admission in ABU Zaria
to do her Masters in Guidance and Counselling, adding
that his first encounter with his wife was when the convict
gave them attendance register to write their names and
telephone numbers for identification.
According to Isyaku, soon after his wife signed and went
for prayers, Prof Kolo started calling her repeatedly. ‘’She
saw five missed calls from Kolo when she came back from
prayers. Kolo persisted calling her number despite several
warnings.’’
The accused pleaded guilty to the charge. His lawyers M.A.
Gausu and R.A. Nwande told the court that the accused
wass above 60 years and the bread winner of his family
and therefore begged the court to temper justice with
mercy.
In his ruling, Senior Magistrate Muhammed Musa
Kaugama said that although the convict was a first
offender, “this court hereby sentences the convict to two
months imprisonment without option of fine,’’ to serve as
deterrent to others.
Isyaku, who was allegedly sexually harassed by Professor
Festus David Kolo of Ahmadu Bello University, ABU, Zaria,
Malam Muhammad Isyaku, has asked the university to
terminate the appointment of the don.
A Chief Magistrate Court in Kiyawa Local Government Area
of Jigawa State sentenced Professor Kolo of the Faculty of
Education at Ahmadu Bello University, ABU, Zaria to two
months imprisonment last week for knowingly enticing a
married woman who was a student in his department
contrary to Section 389 of the penal code law.
Principal State Counsel, Mustapha Adamu, who read the
First Information Report, said that on May 21, one
Muhammad Ghali of Takur Quarters Dutse “reported you,
Prof. Festus David Kolo of ABU, knowing fully well that Mrs
Bushra Ghali Muhammed is his wife, and you have been
making advances towards her, inciting her, calling her
often, sending her love SMS messages using your phone…”
Adamu further said: “You, Prof. Kolo, was caught red
handed by the police at Dan Musa Guest House, Room
109 with Ghali’s wife after he reported the case to the
police and after several warnings and pleas by the
husband.’’
Malam Isyaku who spoke in an interview with Vanguard
yesterday said that the two-month imprisonment for the
66- year professor was too mild.
He argued that since the court had found him guilty of
committing the offence and sentenced him, he should
face dismissal from the university because of the integrity
of the institution.
Isyaku who is a lecturer with the Jigawa State Polytechnic,
stressed that dismissing Prof Kolo from the services of
ABU would serve as a deterrent to others who had formed
the habit of seeking to have a canal knowledge of their
females students.
’Though the two months sentence given to the convict by
the Kiyawa Chief Magistrate Court was less severe, but at
least it has sent a signal to lecturers who involve
themselves in such dirty behaviour that no body is above
the law,” he said.
He further said that he spoke with the Prof Kolo severally
on the telephone and even begged him to stop calling his
wife’s phone, but the he persisted and even visited his wife
in Dutse, Jigawa state where he was eventually
apprehended by security operatives
’’I asked professor Kolo if he knew that Bushira is a
married woman, he said yes, and I told him to please keep
off from her. He apologised but kept on calling my wife
who reported the matter to their class representative who
advised her to switch off her telephone,’’ he added.
He told Vanguard that his wife got admission in ABU Zaria
to do her Masters in Guidance and Counselling, adding
that his first encounter with his wife was when the convict
gave them attendance register to write their names and
telephone numbers for identification.
According to Isyaku, soon after his wife signed and went
for prayers, Prof Kolo started calling her repeatedly. ‘’She
saw five missed calls from Kolo when she came back from
prayers. Kolo persisted calling her number despite several
warnings.’’
The accused pleaded guilty to the charge. His lawyers M.A.
Gausu and R.A. Nwande told the court that the accused
wass above 60 years and the bread winner of his family
and therefore begged the court to temper justice with
mercy.
In his ruling, Senior Magistrate Muhammed Musa
Kaugama said that although the convict was a first
offender, “this court hereby sentences the convict to two
months imprisonment without option of fine,’’ to serve as
deterrent to others.
‘World’s oldest living’ person dies in Japan
A Japanese man recognised as the world’s oldest living person,
and the oldest man recorded in history, has died aged 116, local
officials said.
Jiroemon Kimura died of natural causes on Wednesday in a hospital in Kyotango, Kyoto, a government statement said.
In December, Guinness World Records recorded Mr. Kimura as
the oldest man ever verified to have lived.
He reportedly had seven children, 14 grandchildren, 25 great-
grandchildren, and 13 great-great-grandchildren.
The BBC reports that Mr. Kimura was born on 19 April 1897, the
same year as aviator Amelia Earhart.
He worked in his local post office until retiring and was said to
have helped his son with his farming until he was around 90
years old.
He became the world’s oldest living person in December, when
the previous title-holder died.
In an interview in December, his nephew, Tamotsu Miyake, said
Kimura had “an amazingly strong will to live.”
“He is strongly confident that he lives right and well.”
and the oldest man recorded in history, has died aged 116, local
officials said.
Jiroemon Kimura died of natural causes on Wednesday in a hospital in Kyotango, Kyoto, a government statement said.
In December, Guinness World Records recorded Mr. Kimura as
the oldest man ever verified to have lived.
He reportedly had seven children, 14 grandchildren, 25 great-
grandchildren, and 13 great-great-grandchildren.
The BBC reports that Mr. Kimura was born on 19 April 1897, the
same year as aviator Amelia Earhart.
He worked in his local post office until retiring and was said to
have helped his son with his farming until he was around 90
years old.
He became the world’s oldest living person in December, when
the previous title-holder died.
In an interview in December, his nephew, Tamotsu Miyake, said
Kimura had “an amazingly strong will to live.”
“He is strongly confident that he lives right and well.”
Sunday, 9 June 2013
TYPES OF GIRLS !
COROLLA: Prostitute type. These help in time of
needs, more like a taxi.
BMW: Expensive but not wife material. Usually
called "Pocket Virus".
NISSAN: Driving school. Every Jim and Jack
learns thru these.
RANGE ROVER: Loved by most, affordable to
few. You'll never regret loving, trusting or
spending on her coz she's worth it.
TOYOYA; Affordable and trustworthy. Come in
different shapes and sizes and they are a wife
material.
MERCEDEZ BENZ: Sensitive! You do something
stupid, she is gone and it will take lifetime to get
her back.
JEEP: Whatever you go through, she will never
let you down. Her qualities are not noticed until
you hit a rough patch.
FIAT: Old fashioned in many ways but will never
disappoint you. Loved by few.
WHICH TYPE ARE YOU?
AND GUYS WHICH
TYPE YOU ARE DATING Or YOU WANNA DATE??
needs, more like a taxi.
BMW: Expensive but not wife material. Usually
called "Pocket Virus".
NISSAN: Driving school. Every Jim and Jack
learns thru these.
RANGE ROVER: Loved by most, affordable to
few. You'll never regret loving, trusting or
spending on her coz she's worth it.
TOYOYA; Affordable and trustworthy. Come in
different shapes and sizes and they are a wife
material.
MERCEDEZ BENZ: Sensitive! You do something
stupid, she is gone and it will take lifetime to get
her back.
JEEP: Whatever you go through, she will never
let you down. Her qualities are not noticed until
you hit a rough patch.
FIAT: Old fashioned in many ways but will never
disappoint you. Loved by few.
WHICH TYPE ARE YOU?
AND GUYS WHICH
TYPE YOU ARE DATING Or YOU WANNA DATE??
10 WAY TO AVOID MARRYING THE WRONG PERSON
) Do Not Marry Potential:
Oftentimes men consider marrying a woman hoping she never changes while a woman considers marrying a man she hopes she can change. This is the wrong approach on both accounts. Don’t assume that you can change a person after you’re married to them or that they will reach their potential. There is no guarantee, after all, that those changes will be for the better. In fact, it’s often for the
worse. If you can’t accept someone or imagine living with them as they are then don’t marry them. These differences can include a number of things such as ideological or practical differences in religion, habits, hygiene, communication skills, etc.
2)Choose Character over Chemistry:
While chemistry and attraction are no doubt important, character precedes them both. A famous quote follows,
“Chemistry ignites the fire, but character keeps it burning.” The idea of falling “in love”
should never be the sole reason for marrying someone; it is very easy to confuse infatuation and lust for love. The most important character traits to look for include humility, kindness, responsibility, & happiness. Here’s a breakdown of each trait:
Humility: The humble person never makes demands of people but rather always does right by them. They put their values and principles above convenience and comfort. They are slow to anger, are modest, and avoid materialism.
Kindness: The kind person is the quintessential giver. They seek to please and minimize the pain of others. To know if a person is a giver, observe how they treat their family, siblings, and parents. Do they have gratitude towards their parents for all that they’ve done for them? If not, then know that they will never appreciate what you do
for them. How do they treat people they don’t have to be kind towards (i.e. waiters, sales associates, employees, etc)? How do they
spend their money? How do they deal with anger; their own anger
and their reaction to someone else’s anger?
Responsibility: A responsible person has stability in their finances,
relationships, job, and character. You can you rely on this person
and trust what they say.
Happiness: A happy person is content with their portion in life. They feel good about themselves and good about their life. They focus on what they have rather than on what they don’t have. They very rarely complain.
3) Do Not Neglect The Emotional Needs of Your Partner:
Both men and women have emotional needs and in order for a partnership to be successful those needs must be mutually met. The fundamental emotional need of a woman is to be loved. The fundamental emotional need of a man is to be respected and appreciated. To make a woman feel loved give her the three AAAs:
Attention, Affection, & Appreciation. To make a man feel loved give him the three RRRs: Respect, Reassurance, & Relief. It is the obligation of each partner to make sure the other is happy and this extends to intimacy as well. As long as each partner is fulfilled by the emotional needs of the other, the intimate relationship will thrive. When a man takes seriously the emotional needs of his wife
she will feel more encouraged to fulfill his intimate desires.
Likewise, when a woman takes seriously the emotional needs of her husband he will feel more encouraged to give her the affection, love and appreciation she wants from him. Working together in this way encourages both giving and receiving.
4) Avoid Opposing Life Plans:
In marriage you can either grow together or grow apart. Sharing a common purpose in life will increase the chance that you will grow together.
You must know what the person is into. In other words, what are they ultimately passionate about? Then ask
yourself,
“Do I respect this passion?” “Do I respect what they are into?”
The more specifically you define yourself, i.e., your values, your beliefs, your lifestyle, the better chance you have of finding your life partner, your soul mate, the one you are most compatible with.
Remember, before you decide who to take along on a trip, you should first figure out your destination.
5) Avoid Pre-Marital intimate/Physical Activity:
Recognize that there is incredible wisdom in why God has ordered us to refrain from intimacy before marriage; they are to prevent great
harms as well as to keep sacred what is the most blessed part of a relationship between a man and a woman.
Aside from the obvious spiritual consequences, when a relationship gets physical before its time, important issues like character, life philosophy, and compatibility go to the wayside. Consequently, everything is romanticized and it becomes difficult to even remember the important issues let alone talk about them. Intellectual commitment must be established before emotional or intimate commitment.
6) Avoid Lack of Emotional Connection:
There are four questions that you must answer YES to:
Do I respect and admire this person? What specifically do I respect and admire about this person?
Do I trust this person? Can I rely on them? Do I trust their judgment?
Do I trust their word? Can I believe what they say?
Do I feel Safe? Do I feel emotionally safe with this person? Can I be
vulnerable? Can I be myself? Can I be open? Can I express myself?
Do I feel calm and at peace with this person?
If the answer is “I don’t know, I’m not sure, etc.” keep evaluating
until you know for sure and truly understand how you feel. If you
don’t feel safe now, you won’t feel safe when you are married. If you
don’t trust now, this won’t change when you are married!
7) Pay Attention to Your Own Emotional Anxiety:
Choosing someone you don’t feel safe with emotionally is not a good recipe for a long-lasting and loving marriage. Feeling emotionally safe is the foundation of a strong and healthy marriage. When you don’t feel safe, you can’t express your feelings and opinions. Learn how to identify whether you are in an abusive relationship. If you feel you always have to monitor what you say, if you are with someone and you feel you can’t really express yourself
and are always walking on eggshells, then it’s very likely you are in an abusive relationship. Look for the following things:
Controlling behavior: This includes controlling the way you act, the
way you think, the way you dress, the way you wear your hair/hijab
and the way you spend your time. Know the difference between suggestions and demands. Demands are an expression of control and if the demands are implied, than you must do it or there will be
consequences. All of these are clear indications of abusive
personalities.
Anger issues: This is someone who raises their voice on a regular basis, who is angry, gets angry at you, uses anger against you, uses put downs, and curses at you, etc. You don’t have to put up with this type of treatment. Many people who tolerate this behavior usually
come from abusive backgrounds. If this is the case with you or someone you know, get help right away. Deal with those issues before getting married or before even thinking about getting married.
8.) Beware of Lack of Openness In Your Partner:
Many couples make the mistake of not putting everything on the
table for discussion from the onset. Ask yourself, “What do I need to know to be absolutely certain I want to marry this person?” “What bothers me about this person or the relationship?” It’s very important to identify what’s bothering you, things that concern you,
and things you are afraid to bring up for discussion. Then you must have an honest discussion about them. This is a great way to test the strength of your relationship. Bringing up issues when there’s conflict is a great opportunity to really evaluate how well you
communicate, negotiate, and work together as a team. When people get into power struggles and blame each other, it’s an indication they don’t work well as a team. Also important is being vulnerable
around each other. Ask deep questions of each other and see how your partner responds. How do they handle it?
Are they defensive?
Do they attack? Do they withdraw? Do they get annoyed? Do they
blame you? Do they ignore it? Do they hide or rationalize it? Don’t
just listen to what they say but watch for how they say it!
9) Beware of Avoiding Personal Responsibility:
It’s very important to remember no one else is responsible for your
happiness. Many people make the mistake of thinking someone else
will fulfill them and make their life better and that’s their reason for
getting married. People fail to realize that if they are unhappy as a
single person, they will continue to be miserable when they are
married. If you are currently not happy with yourself, don’t like
yourself, don’t like the direction your life is going now, it’s
important to take responsibility for that now and work on improving
those areas of your life before considering marriage. Don’t bring
these issues into your marriage and hope your partner will fix them.
10) Watch Out For Lack of Emotional Health and Availability In Your Potential Partner:
Many people choose partners that are not emotionally healthy or
available. One huge problem is when a partner is unable to balance
the emotional ties to family members, the marriage ends up having 3 (or more) people in it rather than two. An example of this would
be if a man is overly dependent on his mother and brings that
relationship into the marriage; this is no doubt a recipe for disaster.
Also important to consider are the following:
Avoid people who are emotionally empty inside. These include
people who don’t like themselves because they lack the ability to be
emotionally available. They are always preoccupied with their
deficiencies, insecurities, and negative thoughts. They are in a
perpetual fight with depression, never feel good, are isolated, are
critical and judgmental; tend to not have any close friends, and
often distrust people or are afraid of them. Another clear indication
about them is they always feel their needs are not getting met; they
have a sense of entitlement and feel angry when they feel people
should take care of them and they don’t. They feel burdened by
other people’s needs and feel resentment towards them. These
people can not be emotionally available to build healthy
relationships.
Addictions can also limit the level of availability of the partner to
build a strong emotional relationship. Never marry an addict.
Addictions are not limited to drugs and alcohol. They can be about
addictions and dependency on work, internet, hobbies, sports,
shopping, money, power, status, materialism, etc. When someone
has an addiction, they will not and can not be emotionally available
to develop an intimate relationship with you!
Additional Points to Consider:
The fact is no one looks 25 forever. Ultimately, we love the person
we marry for more than their appearance. When we get to know
someone we love and admire, we’ll love them for their inner beauty
and overall essence.
Once we find someone, we consciously or subconsciously want so
badly for it all to work that we decide not to question or see what is
clearly in front of our eyes: they were rude to the waiter, speaks ill of
others, is rude to you, etc. We don’t stop to ask, “What does all of
this mean about their character?”
Never separate someone from their family, background, education,
belief system, etc. Asking clear questions can clarify this. Ask
questions like, “What does it mean to have a simple lifestyle?” “What
are your expectations of marriage?” “How would you help around
the house?” Compare your definition with theirs.
Be flexible. Be open-minded!
Giving in a happy marriage should not be confused with martyrdom.
It should be about taking pleasure and seeing the other person as
happy because of your connection with them.
Morality and spirituality are the qualities that truly define someone
in addition to beauty, money, and health. The morally upright and
spiritual person will stand by your side during adversity and
hardship. If someone isn’t God-conscience and doesn’t take
themselves into account with God then why should you expect them
to fulfill their rights owed to you? The ideal partner is someone who
considers giving a gain and not causing a loss. Having a mutual and
shared spiritual relationship will foster a successful marriage.
Furthermore, a successful marriage is one that keeps the laws of
family purity which require a certain degree of self-control and self-
discipline, as well as the belief that the physical side of the
relationship includes the spiritual and emotional side as well.
Finding commonality and balance between the spiritual and
emotional aspects of a relationship is a strong key to a healthy and
thriving marriage.
Oftentimes men consider marrying a woman hoping she never changes while a woman considers marrying a man she hopes she can change. This is the wrong approach on both accounts. Don’t assume that you can change a person after you’re married to them or that they will reach their potential. There is no guarantee, after all, that those changes will be for the better. In fact, it’s often for the
worse. If you can’t accept someone or imagine living with them as they are then don’t marry them. These differences can include a number of things such as ideological or practical differences in religion, habits, hygiene, communication skills, etc.
2)Choose Character over Chemistry:
While chemistry and attraction are no doubt important, character precedes them both. A famous quote follows,
“Chemistry ignites the fire, but character keeps it burning.” The idea of falling “in love”
should never be the sole reason for marrying someone; it is very easy to confuse infatuation and lust for love. The most important character traits to look for include humility, kindness, responsibility, & happiness. Here’s a breakdown of each trait:
Humility: The humble person never makes demands of people but rather always does right by them. They put their values and principles above convenience and comfort. They are slow to anger, are modest, and avoid materialism.
Kindness: The kind person is the quintessential giver. They seek to please and minimize the pain of others. To know if a person is a giver, observe how they treat their family, siblings, and parents. Do they have gratitude towards their parents for all that they’ve done for them? If not, then know that they will never appreciate what you do
for them. How do they treat people they don’t have to be kind towards (i.e. waiters, sales associates, employees, etc)? How do they
spend their money? How do they deal with anger; their own anger
and their reaction to someone else’s anger?
Responsibility: A responsible person has stability in their finances,
relationships, job, and character. You can you rely on this person
and trust what they say.
Happiness: A happy person is content with their portion in life. They feel good about themselves and good about their life. They focus on what they have rather than on what they don’t have. They very rarely complain.
3) Do Not Neglect The Emotional Needs of Your Partner:
Both men and women have emotional needs and in order for a partnership to be successful those needs must be mutually met. The fundamental emotional need of a woman is to be loved. The fundamental emotional need of a man is to be respected and appreciated. To make a woman feel loved give her the three AAAs:
Attention, Affection, & Appreciation. To make a man feel loved give him the three RRRs: Respect, Reassurance, & Relief. It is the obligation of each partner to make sure the other is happy and this extends to intimacy as well. As long as each partner is fulfilled by the emotional needs of the other, the intimate relationship will thrive. When a man takes seriously the emotional needs of his wife
she will feel more encouraged to fulfill his intimate desires.
Likewise, when a woman takes seriously the emotional needs of her husband he will feel more encouraged to give her the affection, love and appreciation she wants from him. Working together in this way encourages both giving and receiving.
4) Avoid Opposing Life Plans:
In marriage you can either grow together or grow apart. Sharing a common purpose in life will increase the chance that you will grow together.
You must know what the person is into. In other words, what are they ultimately passionate about? Then ask
yourself,
“Do I respect this passion?” “Do I respect what they are into?”
The more specifically you define yourself, i.e., your values, your beliefs, your lifestyle, the better chance you have of finding your life partner, your soul mate, the one you are most compatible with.
Remember, before you decide who to take along on a trip, you should first figure out your destination.
5) Avoid Pre-Marital intimate/Physical Activity:
Recognize that there is incredible wisdom in why God has ordered us to refrain from intimacy before marriage; they are to prevent great
harms as well as to keep sacred what is the most blessed part of a relationship between a man and a woman.
Aside from the obvious spiritual consequences, when a relationship gets physical before its time, important issues like character, life philosophy, and compatibility go to the wayside. Consequently, everything is romanticized and it becomes difficult to even remember the important issues let alone talk about them. Intellectual commitment must be established before emotional or intimate commitment.
6) Avoid Lack of Emotional Connection:
There are four questions that you must answer YES to:
Do I respect and admire this person? What specifically do I respect and admire about this person?
Do I trust this person? Can I rely on them? Do I trust their judgment?
Do I trust their word? Can I believe what they say?
Do I feel Safe? Do I feel emotionally safe with this person? Can I be
vulnerable? Can I be myself? Can I be open? Can I express myself?
Do I feel calm and at peace with this person?
If the answer is “I don’t know, I’m not sure, etc.” keep evaluating
until you know for sure and truly understand how you feel. If you
don’t feel safe now, you won’t feel safe when you are married. If you
don’t trust now, this won’t change when you are married!
7) Pay Attention to Your Own Emotional Anxiety:
Choosing someone you don’t feel safe with emotionally is not a good recipe for a long-lasting and loving marriage. Feeling emotionally safe is the foundation of a strong and healthy marriage. When you don’t feel safe, you can’t express your feelings and opinions. Learn how to identify whether you are in an abusive relationship. If you feel you always have to monitor what you say, if you are with someone and you feel you can’t really express yourself
and are always walking on eggshells, then it’s very likely you are in an abusive relationship. Look for the following things:
Controlling behavior: This includes controlling the way you act, the
way you think, the way you dress, the way you wear your hair/hijab
and the way you spend your time. Know the difference between suggestions and demands. Demands are an expression of control and if the demands are implied, than you must do it or there will be
consequences. All of these are clear indications of abusive
personalities.
Anger issues: This is someone who raises their voice on a regular basis, who is angry, gets angry at you, uses anger against you, uses put downs, and curses at you, etc. You don’t have to put up with this type of treatment. Many people who tolerate this behavior usually
come from abusive backgrounds. If this is the case with you or someone you know, get help right away. Deal with those issues before getting married or before even thinking about getting married.
8.) Beware of Lack of Openness In Your Partner:
Many couples make the mistake of not putting everything on the
table for discussion from the onset. Ask yourself, “What do I need to know to be absolutely certain I want to marry this person?” “What bothers me about this person or the relationship?” It’s very important to identify what’s bothering you, things that concern you,
and things you are afraid to bring up for discussion. Then you must have an honest discussion about them. This is a great way to test the strength of your relationship. Bringing up issues when there’s conflict is a great opportunity to really evaluate how well you
communicate, negotiate, and work together as a team. When people get into power struggles and blame each other, it’s an indication they don’t work well as a team. Also important is being vulnerable
around each other. Ask deep questions of each other and see how your partner responds. How do they handle it?
Are they defensive?
Do they attack? Do they withdraw? Do they get annoyed? Do they
blame you? Do they ignore it? Do they hide or rationalize it? Don’t
just listen to what they say but watch for how they say it!
9) Beware of Avoiding Personal Responsibility:
It’s very important to remember no one else is responsible for your
happiness. Many people make the mistake of thinking someone else
will fulfill them and make their life better and that’s their reason for
getting married. People fail to realize that if they are unhappy as a
single person, they will continue to be miserable when they are
married. If you are currently not happy with yourself, don’t like
yourself, don’t like the direction your life is going now, it’s
important to take responsibility for that now and work on improving
those areas of your life before considering marriage. Don’t bring
these issues into your marriage and hope your partner will fix them.
10) Watch Out For Lack of Emotional Health and Availability In Your Potential Partner:
Many people choose partners that are not emotionally healthy or
available. One huge problem is when a partner is unable to balance
the emotional ties to family members, the marriage ends up having 3 (or more) people in it rather than two. An example of this would
be if a man is overly dependent on his mother and brings that
relationship into the marriage; this is no doubt a recipe for disaster.
Also important to consider are the following:
Avoid people who are emotionally empty inside. These include
people who don’t like themselves because they lack the ability to be
emotionally available. They are always preoccupied with their
deficiencies, insecurities, and negative thoughts. They are in a
perpetual fight with depression, never feel good, are isolated, are
critical and judgmental; tend to not have any close friends, and
often distrust people or are afraid of them. Another clear indication
about them is they always feel their needs are not getting met; they
have a sense of entitlement and feel angry when they feel people
should take care of them and they don’t. They feel burdened by
other people’s needs and feel resentment towards them. These
people can not be emotionally available to build healthy
relationships.
Addictions can also limit the level of availability of the partner to
build a strong emotional relationship. Never marry an addict.
Addictions are not limited to drugs and alcohol. They can be about
addictions and dependency on work, internet, hobbies, sports,
shopping, money, power, status, materialism, etc. When someone
has an addiction, they will not and can not be emotionally available
to develop an intimate relationship with you!
Additional Points to Consider:
The fact is no one looks 25 forever. Ultimately, we love the person
we marry for more than their appearance. When we get to know
someone we love and admire, we’ll love them for their inner beauty
and overall essence.
Once we find someone, we consciously or subconsciously want so
badly for it all to work that we decide not to question or see what is
clearly in front of our eyes: they were rude to the waiter, speaks ill of
others, is rude to you, etc. We don’t stop to ask, “What does all of
this mean about their character?”
Never separate someone from their family, background, education,
belief system, etc. Asking clear questions can clarify this. Ask
questions like, “What does it mean to have a simple lifestyle?” “What
are your expectations of marriage?” “How would you help around
the house?” Compare your definition with theirs.
Be flexible. Be open-minded!
Giving in a happy marriage should not be confused with martyrdom.
It should be about taking pleasure and seeing the other person as
happy because of your connection with them.
Morality and spirituality are the qualities that truly define someone
in addition to beauty, money, and health. The morally upright and
spiritual person will stand by your side during adversity and
hardship. If someone isn’t God-conscience and doesn’t take
themselves into account with God then why should you expect them
to fulfill their rights owed to you? The ideal partner is someone who
considers giving a gain and not causing a loss. Having a mutual and
shared spiritual relationship will foster a successful marriage.
Furthermore, a successful marriage is one that keeps the laws of
family purity which require a certain degree of self-control and self-
discipline, as well as the belief that the physical side of the
relationship includes the spiritual and emotional side as well.
Finding commonality and balance between the spiritual and
emotional aspects of a relationship is a strong key to a healthy and
thriving marriage.
Friday, 24 May 2013
WOMEN SEX CHEMICAL
There Is A Chemical In A Girl's Brains Which Is Only Released Three Times In Her Lifetime;
1. When She Has Sex
2. When She Gives Birth
3. When She Breast Feeds Her Child
This Chemical Is Called Oxytocin, It Emotionally Connects Her To The Other Person For The Rest Of Her
Life. Men Only Release The Chemical When They Bond With Their Children. Even If You Are Lucky Enough To Stay Friends With A Girl After Having Sex, A Girl Will Always Have Feelings For You No matter how small Because Of The Chemical, So If You Think Sex Is A Game, Remember That You Can Mentally Mess A Girl Up For The Rest Of Her Life.
It Explains Why Humans are Only Created To Have Sex With One Person. Doing It(sex) With Multiple People Ultimately Has A Strong Negative Effect On The Relationship You Plan To Have With The Person You Choose To Spend The Rest Of Your Life With.
"Keep That In Mind Next Time You Decide To Hit It And Quit It"
Though the Chemical can also be popped up when cuddling, kissing, laughing and even eating food like chocolate and banana.
1. When She Has Sex
2. When She Gives Birth
3. When She Breast Feeds Her Child
This Chemical Is Called Oxytocin, It Emotionally Connects Her To The Other Person For The Rest Of Her
Life. Men Only Release The Chemical When They Bond With Their Children. Even If You Are Lucky Enough To Stay Friends With A Girl After Having Sex, A Girl Will Always Have Feelings For You No matter how small Because Of The Chemical, So If You Think Sex Is A Game, Remember That You Can Mentally Mess A Girl Up For The Rest Of Her Life.
It Explains Why Humans are Only Created To Have Sex With One Person. Doing It(sex) With Multiple People Ultimately Has A Strong Negative Effect On The Relationship You Plan To Have With The Person You Choose To Spend The Rest Of Your Life With.
"Keep That In Mind Next Time You Decide To Hit It And Quit It"
Though the Chemical can also be popped up when cuddling, kissing, laughing and even eating food like chocolate and banana.
Human Parts Available: Live Human, N40,000; Head, N8,000; Hands, N4,000
Emotions ran high, Tuesday, at Lagos State Police Command, Ikeja, following startling revelations by suspected members of three syndicates, who specialised in selling human parts to herbalists and persons suspected to be clerics. The suspects told a bewildered crowd that human heads were sold for
N8,000; hands, N4,000 and private parts N10,000. One of them, Agboola Kolawole, who blamed his indulgence on poverty and inability to pay his children’s school fees, disclosed that he had so far
sold four heads of his deceased siblings to a herbalist, who in turn sold to some persons they identified simply as Alhajis. The Alhajis, as gathered, offered to pay one of the suspects N40,000 to get a live human being, only for the suspect, Sanni Kazeem, to be apprehended during his search for prey. Recovered from one of the arrested herbalists, identified as Ajibade Rafiu (40), who the suspects said they supply with the human parts, was a dried human finger suspected to be that of a lady, and a concoction, which he said was made from ground human head mixed with local gin. The concoction, according to Rafiu, was to fortify him against
spiritual attack.
Arrest, confession Their arrest, according to the Command’s spokesperson, Ngozi Braide, followed a tip-off from the officer-in-char ge of the Special Anti- Robbery Squad, Ikeja, Abba Kyari, that one of the suspects, Jamiu Adeleke, was at the verge of selling a human hand for N21,000. The operatives, according to Braide, who paraded the suspects before newsmen, stormed Owode town, Ogun State, where Adeleke was arrested while attempting to sell the human hand to a buyer. She said: “Adeleke confessed that one Sanni Kazeem sold it to him for N6,000. When Sanni was arrested, he also confessed to the crime, adding that he had supplied two human heads to a dealer named Akinwowo Fatai (30), who was also arrested. Akinwowo, on his part, confessed to have received the human heads and another four human heads from another supplier, one Agboola Kolawole (40), who was later arrested in the same Owode town.”
Sources of ‘goods’ “Kolawole confessed that he cut the heads of his two late brothers and
two late sisters buried in private graves in their compound and sold them
for N8,000 each. The final buyer/ receiver, one Ajibade Rafiu (30), a herbalist, was also arrested. “During interrogation, the suppliers said they got their human parts from various grave yards in Ogun State, while the middlemen doubled the prices and sell to the herbalist, who is the end user. “Sanni Kazeem also confessed that two popular Alhajis in the same
Owode town had bought one head from him before and also requested for a live human being for N40,000.” She added that the first suspect arrested, Adeleke, jumped out of a moving vehicle in his attempt to escape and sustained fatal injuries, which later resulted in his death, adding that effort was still on to arrest others indicted in the business.
‘Am in it for school fees’ One of the suspects, Agboola Kolawole, said: “Yes, I sold my dead siblings parts for N8,000 each. I was tempted to do that because of poverty and inability to pay my children’s school fees. “Just as I was thinking of how to pay their school fees, a friend approached me and asked why I should be suffering when there was a way out. When I asked how, he said I should go and get some human
parts that he would pay me. “That was how I went to my late brother’s grave at night, exhumed the
bodies of two of them and cut off the heads. “When I took them to the friend, he gave me N16,000 and told me to get him four hands. This time around, I went to my late sisters graves and cut off their hands. I was paid N8,000 for a set of hands.”
‘I was offered N40,000 to get a human being’ Kazeem Sanni said he usually went to cemeteries to exhume dead bodies and cut off the needed parts. He said: “The cemetery I usually frequent is CMS. I usually go there at night when the guards would have slept. “I sell skull for N8,000 to Alpha Jamiu (Muslim cleric). So far, I have gone to the cemetery thrice to cut off human parts.
“Two weeks ago, he called to say that his clients needed a human being, promising to pay me N40,000. When I asked him how that was possible, he said he would give me a charm that would hypnotise the victim
to facilitate his/her abduction. “I told him I would think about it. But I never went back to him again
because I felt I could not do that.” However, it was gathered that Alpha Jamiu, the middleman, pays the
supplier N8,000 but sells the parts thrice the amount to end users.
The herbalist, Ajibade Rafiu, told journalists that he bought a human head for N8,000, with an intention to prepare a fortification concoction for himself. He said: “I burnt the human head and later ground it,
poured it inside a plastic and added local gin and other roots. I prepared the concoction for myself. “It is to fortify me against any attack because in this job if you are not fortified people may attempt to throw spiritual arrows at you. But with this, if anybody tries it, it will backfire.”
Alpha Jamiu na God go punish you ooo....Ungodly men now claim men of God in our society.......A llah is indeed As-Sabirun...The Most Patient.
N8,000; hands, N4,000 and private parts N10,000. One of them, Agboola Kolawole, who blamed his indulgence on poverty and inability to pay his children’s school fees, disclosed that he had so far
sold four heads of his deceased siblings to a herbalist, who in turn sold to some persons they identified simply as Alhajis. The Alhajis, as gathered, offered to pay one of the suspects N40,000 to get a live human being, only for the suspect, Sanni Kazeem, to be apprehended during his search for prey. Recovered from one of the arrested herbalists, identified as Ajibade Rafiu (40), who the suspects said they supply with the human parts, was a dried human finger suspected to be that of a lady, and a concoction, which he said was made from ground human head mixed with local gin. The concoction, according to Rafiu, was to fortify him against
spiritual attack.
Arrest, confession Their arrest, according to the Command’s spokesperson, Ngozi Braide, followed a tip-off from the officer-in-char ge of the Special Anti- Robbery Squad, Ikeja, Abba Kyari, that one of the suspects, Jamiu Adeleke, was at the verge of selling a human hand for N21,000. The operatives, according to Braide, who paraded the suspects before newsmen, stormed Owode town, Ogun State, where Adeleke was arrested while attempting to sell the human hand to a buyer. She said: “Adeleke confessed that one Sanni Kazeem sold it to him for N6,000. When Sanni was arrested, he also confessed to the crime, adding that he had supplied two human heads to a dealer named Akinwowo Fatai (30), who was also arrested. Akinwowo, on his part, confessed to have received the human heads and another four human heads from another supplier, one Agboola Kolawole (40), who was later arrested in the same Owode town.”
Sources of ‘goods’ “Kolawole confessed that he cut the heads of his two late brothers and
two late sisters buried in private graves in their compound and sold them
for N8,000 each. The final buyer/ receiver, one Ajibade Rafiu (30), a herbalist, was also arrested. “During interrogation, the suppliers said they got their human parts from various grave yards in Ogun State, while the middlemen doubled the prices and sell to the herbalist, who is the end user. “Sanni Kazeem also confessed that two popular Alhajis in the same
Owode town had bought one head from him before and also requested for a live human being for N40,000.” She added that the first suspect arrested, Adeleke, jumped out of a moving vehicle in his attempt to escape and sustained fatal injuries, which later resulted in his death, adding that effort was still on to arrest others indicted in the business.
‘Am in it for school fees’ One of the suspects, Agboola Kolawole, said: “Yes, I sold my dead siblings parts for N8,000 each. I was tempted to do that because of poverty and inability to pay my children’s school fees. “Just as I was thinking of how to pay their school fees, a friend approached me and asked why I should be suffering when there was a way out. When I asked how, he said I should go and get some human
parts that he would pay me. “That was how I went to my late brother’s grave at night, exhumed the
bodies of two of them and cut off the heads. “When I took them to the friend, he gave me N16,000 and told me to get him four hands. This time around, I went to my late sisters graves and cut off their hands. I was paid N8,000 for a set of hands.”
‘I was offered N40,000 to get a human being’ Kazeem Sanni said he usually went to cemeteries to exhume dead bodies and cut off the needed parts. He said: “The cemetery I usually frequent is CMS. I usually go there at night when the guards would have slept. “I sell skull for N8,000 to Alpha Jamiu (Muslim cleric). So far, I have gone to the cemetery thrice to cut off human parts.
“Two weeks ago, he called to say that his clients needed a human being, promising to pay me N40,000. When I asked him how that was possible, he said he would give me a charm that would hypnotise the victim
to facilitate his/her abduction. “I told him I would think about it. But I never went back to him again
because I felt I could not do that.” However, it was gathered that Alpha Jamiu, the middleman, pays the
supplier N8,000 but sells the parts thrice the amount to end users.
The herbalist, Ajibade Rafiu, told journalists that he bought a human head for N8,000, with an intention to prepare a fortification concoction for himself. He said: “I burnt the human head and later ground it,
poured it inside a plastic and added local gin and other roots. I prepared the concoction for myself. “It is to fortify me against any attack because in this job if you are not fortified people may attempt to throw spiritual arrows at you. But with this, if anybody tries it, it will backfire.”
Alpha Jamiu na God go punish you ooo....Ungodly men now claim men of God in our society.......A llah is indeed As-Sabirun...The Most Patient.
DO YOU AGREE?
Short tiny gals love sex, unlike tall gals.Many short tiny gals tend to lose their virginity much earlier than tall gals.
Fat gals are the perfect gals to love. When a fat gal loves u, ur lucky.
But thin/ slim gals are in m0st cases players and not gud at loving.
Most brown gals are hooked than dark gals. Ugly babes usually get laid m0re than cute dudes. -Plus m0st dudes, that are not gud looking end up dating the cutest gals.
A lot of gals d0n't appreciate gud boys. Be a gud guy, m0st chicks will shun u. Be a bad guy,
hurt gals, break their hearts, and they will love u. Confusing i know.
Majority of chiqs nowadays dress to draw attention, NOT to lo0k gud.
Do you agree?
Fat gals are the perfect gals to love. When a fat gal loves u, ur lucky.
But thin/ slim gals are in m0st cases players and not gud at loving.
Most brown gals are hooked than dark gals. Ugly babes usually get laid m0re than cute dudes. -Plus m0st dudes, that are not gud looking end up dating the cutest gals.
A lot of gals d0n't appreciate gud boys. Be a gud guy, m0st chicks will shun u. Be a bad guy,
hurt gals, break their hearts, and they will love u. Confusing i know.
Majority of chiqs nowadays dress to draw attention, NOT to lo0k gud.
Do you agree?
Friday, 17 May 2013
Private Jet War: You Won’t Deny The Existence Of A State Of Political Roforofoism – Obahiagbon Tells Amaechi
Former lawmaker and Chief of Staff to Comrade Adams Oshiomhole of Edo State, Hon. Patrick Obahiagbon has aired his view on the ongoing ‘war’ between President Goodluck Jonathan and Rotimi
Amaechi of Rivers State.
Fondly called Igodomigodo, Obahiagbon who is known for his jaw-breaking words took to a popular social network to speak about the ongoing political ruckus in Rivers state. Hear him, “I am in perfect simulacrum with you, Mr. Governor that, there is indeed no quarrel between you and Mr President, but you won’t deny the existence of a state of political roforofoism and the difference between the two is one of a tweedledum and tweedledee….would like to hear the asseverations of my friends on the political malodorous saga that is putrescently cocooning Rivers State, just now and thus precipitously corralling it into an eschewable socio-politico asphyxia…
Amaechi of Rivers State.
Fondly called Igodomigodo, Obahiagbon who is known for his jaw-breaking words took to a popular social network to speak about the ongoing political ruckus in Rivers state. Hear him, “I am in perfect simulacrum with you, Mr. Governor that, there is indeed no quarrel between you and Mr President, but you won’t deny the existence of a state of political roforofoism and the difference between the two is one of a tweedledum and tweedledee….would like to hear the asseverations of my friends on the political malodorous saga that is putrescently cocooning Rivers State, just now and thus precipitously corralling it into an eschewable socio-politico asphyxia…
Dirty Habits We Should Get Rid Of
I went out yesterday to have a great time, and could not help noticing the number of fine boys and girls with
terrible dirty habits in the public
1) Spitting phlegm in public- Probably people that do this grew up in dirty areas, and learnt to instinctively roll up phlegm and spit it out with trajectory expertise. But now you are in a posh neighborhood, kindly desist
2) Spitting out bones of fish on the ground into a pile of mess
When you where in in the village with its exposed soil everywhere, it probably made sense for you to spit out bones on the ground when eating. You were doing your part to enrich soil nutrients and give bingo a chance to partake of your meals. But now you are in the city eating out in a tiled or cemented floor environment. So kindly desist
3) scratching your crotch
You are not infested with crab lice, so please stop scratching you stuff in public
4) Digging your nose
And then you want to shake someone with the same hands abi? why not just dig your nose into a cup and make some tea off it.
5)Pulling at your pant lines to properly set it
Yep, those panties have a way of slipping to the wrong places. But please put your back against the wall or look for somewhere more private when adjusting them
6) Peeing in public
The feel of nature brushing aganist your totori is awesome when peeing in public alright, but it looks so ungentlemanly especially when you step out of your landrover looking tooch just before you amaze the crowd with your dog instinct to mark your territory I must commend ladies for being more careful in this act. I havent seen more than 10 ladies do this in my lifetime.
The first time I saw a lady do this, I almost collapsed. She spread her legs, raised her skirts (or wrapper) shifted her panties, and opened her tap
7) Eating with your mouth open
I learnt it was a bad habit, so I've learnt to close my mouth when chewing ............... ............... ............... ............... ......... Common guys, lets all develop some civility parents, also ensure your kids do not pick up these habits, especially from their friends whose parents have not devoted same effort as you in tooching up their kids ....Stay Blessed.
terrible dirty habits in the public
1) Spitting phlegm in public- Probably people that do this grew up in dirty areas, and learnt to instinctively roll up phlegm and spit it out with trajectory expertise. But now you are in a posh neighborhood, kindly desist
2) Spitting out bones of fish on the ground into a pile of mess
When you where in in the village with its exposed soil everywhere, it probably made sense for you to spit out bones on the ground when eating. You were doing your part to enrich soil nutrients and give bingo a chance to partake of your meals. But now you are in the city eating out in a tiled or cemented floor environment. So kindly desist
3) scratching your crotch
You are not infested with crab lice, so please stop scratching you stuff in public
4) Digging your nose
And then you want to shake someone with the same hands abi? why not just dig your nose into a cup and make some tea off it.
5)Pulling at your pant lines to properly set it
Yep, those panties have a way of slipping to the wrong places. But please put your back against the wall or look for somewhere more private when adjusting them
6) Peeing in public
The feel of nature brushing aganist your totori is awesome when peeing in public alright, but it looks so ungentlemanly especially when you step out of your landrover looking tooch just before you amaze the crowd with your dog instinct to mark your territory I must commend ladies for being more careful in this act. I havent seen more than 10 ladies do this in my lifetime.
The first time I saw a lady do this, I almost collapsed. She spread her legs, raised her skirts (or wrapper) shifted her panties, and opened her tap
7) Eating with your mouth open
I learnt it was a bad habit, so I've learnt to close my mouth when chewing ............... ............... ............... ............... ......... Common guys, lets all develop some civility parents, also ensure your kids do not pick up these habits, especially from their friends whose parents have not devoted same effort as you in tooching up their kids ....Stay Blessed.
40 REASONS WHY MANY RELATIONSHIPS OR MARRIAGES BREAK DOWN
1. Ego
2. Lies
3. Pride
4. Death
5. Poverty
6. Jealousy
7. Cheating
8. Rumours
9. Facebook
10. Ex- lovers
11. Insecurity
12. Disrespect
13. Exhaustion
14. Dishonesty
15. Lack of sex
16. Immaturity
17. Impatience
18. Lack of care
19. Lack of trust
20. Long distance
21. Too much sex
22. Unfaithfulness
23. Irresponsibilit y
24. Constant fights
25. Lack of intimacy
26. Chronic diseases
27. Tribal difference
28. Wrong accusations
29. Family background
30. Being over secretive
31. Unfulfilled promises
32. Lack of commitment
33. Over possessiveness
34. Religious differences
35. Lack of understanding
36. Over- reacting (Anger)
37. Lack of communication
38. Lack of time for each other
39. Impotence and barrenness
40. Peer pressure from friends
2. Lies
3. Pride
4. Death
5. Poverty
6. Jealousy
7. Cheating
8. Rumours
9. Facebook
10. Ex- lovers
11. Insecurity
12. Disrespect
13. Exhaustion
14. Dishonesty
15. Lack of sex
16. Immaturity
17. Impatience
18. Lack of care
19. Lack of trust
20. Long distance
21. Too much sex
22. Unfaithfulness
23. Irresponsibilit y
24. Constant fights
25. Lack of intimacy
26. Chronic diseases
27. Tribal difference
28. Wrong accusations
29. Family background
30. Being over secretive
31. Unfulfilled promises
32. Lack of commitment
33. Over possessiveness
34. Religious differences
35. Lack of understanding
36. Over- reacting (Anger)
37. Lack of communication
38. Lack of time for each other
39. Impotence and barrenness
40. Peer pressure from friends
18-year-old undergraduate stabs father to death
Residents of Langbasa, Ajah, Lagos State are still talking about 18-year-old Olanrewaju Kayode-Aremu, who stabbed his father, Victor Kayode-Aremu, to death. Police authorities said the suspect stabbed his 46-year-old father to death while the man was attempting to enter his room.
PUNCH Metro learnt that Olanrewaju was a student of University of Ilorin, Kwara State, but was expelled because he had poor grades.
A police source at Langbasa Divison, where the suspect was detained, told our correspondent that the incident occurred on May 1, 2013.
He said, "Olanrewaju is the first of five children. He lived with his parents and siblings in a duplex in Langbasa. He was enrolled in University of Ilorin to study Geology in 2011 but was later asked to withdraw because he had very poor grades.
"Since he was not attending any school, he started working with his father who was a civil engineer. The arrangement his father made with him was that he would be working with him until he could get admission to another school."
The senior officer told our correspondent that the suspect was not happy about the arrangement. He said the frustration later led him to laying an ambush for his father while he was trying to enter his room.
He said the suspect stabbed his father in 10 different places, causing him to bleed to death. He said, "Around 10pm on that day, the whole family had just had dinner and they were watching television when their father
received a telephone call. He went upstairs and when he got to the entrance of the room, Olanrewaju appeared from nowhere with a kitchen knife.
"He stabbed his father in the back, sides, hands, legs over 10 times. The man, who was screaming in pains, attracted the attention of other members of the family who were downstairs. When the mother came upstairs, she found her son still stabbing her husband. The presence of other children did not also stop Olanrewaju.
"When she tried to save her husband, Olanrewaju threatened to stab her if she came close. The woman then went outside and called on neighbours for help."
PUNCH Metro learnt that it took the intervention of neighbours to overpower the 18-year-old and wrest the knife from him. It was learnt that the victim was rushed to J-Rapha Hospital but was pronounced dead on arrival. A resident, who spoke to our correspondent on the condition of anonymity, said the family had been in shock and had not been staying home since the incident occurred.
He said, "The family is a young one. Olanrewaju is the first born and he had four younger siblings."
The suspect, who was not remorseful, said he killed his father because he was convinced that his father did not love him. He said he was not worried about his predicament since he was too young to be prosecuted.
"The case is a very long story. The truth is that my father never loved me and the only form of care he showed me was paying my school fees. I am just 18-years-old so I know I cannot be prosecuted. I have no regrets for my action," he said.
When contacted on the telephone, the Police Public Relations Officer, Ngozi Braide, said she had yet to be fully briefed on the incident.
PUNCH Metro learnt that Olanrewaju was a student of University of Ilorin, Kwara State, but was expelled because he had poor grades.
A police source at Langbasa Divison, where the suspect was detained, told our correspondent that the incident occurred on May 1, 2013.
He said, "Olanrewaju is the first of five children. He lived with his parents and siblings in a duplex in Langbasa. He was enrolled in University of Ilorin to study Geology in 2011 but was later asked to withdraw because he had very poor grades.
"Since he was not attending any school, he started working with his father who was a civil engineer. The arrangement his father made with him was that he would be working with him until he could get admission to another school."
The senior officer told our correspondent that the suspect was not happy about the arrangement. He said the frustration later led him to laying an ambush for his father while he was trying to enter his room.
He said the suspect stabbed his father in 10 different places, causing him to bleed to death. He said, "Around 10pm on that day, the whole family had just had dinner and they were watching television when their father
received a telephone call. He went upstairs and when he got to the entrance of the room, Olanrewaju appeared from nowhere with a kitchen knife.
"He stabbed his father in the back, sides, hands, legs over 10 times. The man, who was screaming in pains, attracted the attention of other members of the family who were downstairs. When the mother came upstairs, she found her son still stabbing her husband. The presence of other children did not also stop Olanrewaju.
"When she tried to save her husband, Olanrewaju threatened to stab her if she came close. The woman then went outside and called on neighbours for help."
PUNCH Metro learnt that it took the intervention of neighbours to overpower the 18-year-old and wrest the knife from him. It was learnt that the victim was rushed to J-Rapha Hospital but was pronounced dead on arrival. A resident, who spoke to our correspondent on the condition of anonymity, said the family had been in shock and had not been staying home since the incident occurred.
He said, "The family is a young one. Olanrewaju is the first born and he had four younger siblings."
The suspect, who was not remorseful, said he killed his father because he was convinced that his father did not love him. He said he was not worried about his predicament since he was too young to be prosecuted.
"The case is a very long story. The truth is that my father never loved me and the only form of care he showed me was paying my school fees. I am just 18-years-old so I know I cannot be prosecuted. I have no regrets for my action," he said.
When contacted on the telephone, the Police Public Relations Officer, Ngozi Braide, said she had yet to be fully briefed on the incident.
Monday, 29 April 2013
WAEC blacklists 113 schools, cancels results for 83,745 Candidates (FULL LIST)
The West African Examinations Council (WAEC) has withdrawn
recognition for 113 secondary schools nationwide, as
punishment for examination malpractices. Also, results of 30,
654 candidates, who sat for the May/June 2012 West African
Senior School Certificate Examination (WASSCE) have been
cancelled.
According to Saturday Sun findings, WAEC hasalso cancelled
individual subject results of 83, 745 candidates, released the
results of 1, 549 and barred for two years 3, 321 candidates from
sitting for the council examination over misconduct during the
school exam, in line with the rules and regulations guiding the
conduct of the examination.
The cancelled results were among the 112, 000 results of
candidates withheld for their involvement in examination
malpractice out of1, 695, 878 candidates that sat for the May/
June 2012 WASSCE.
Only 38.81 per cent (649, 156) of the total candidates that sat for
the May/June 2012 WASSCE obtained five credits in English
Language, Mathematics and three other subjects, thus were
qualified for admissions into universities and polytechnics.
The Nigeria Examinations Committee (NEC) of the council took the
far-reaching decisions in Lagos after it deliberated on evidences
(exhibits) produced by the council, which wereseized from some
candidates involved in examination malpractice.
Other decisions taken by NEC include recommendation for
sanctions against 97 supervisors/principals/other examination
personnel identified and reported to their various state ministries
of education, while 21 supervisors also indicted were blacklisted.
The WAEC committee also recommended that 465 secondary
schools be warned for aiding and abetting examination
malpractice during the 2012 May/June WASSCE, granted clemency
to eight candidates even as the certificates of 12 others were
withdrawn after they asked for restitution.
The NEC, which was chaired by the Director of Basic and
SecondaryEducation), Ministry of Education, Abuja, directed that
the allegations against 930 candidates be further investigated,
while their results are withheld.
Also, the council withdrew the recognition of six schools and
commended one staff. A breakdown of schools sanctioned
nationwide revealed that majority came from the South-South,
followed by those from the North, SouthEast and South West.
Government-owned schools top the list of those involved in exam
fraud.
The NEC recommendation shows that recognition for 21 schools
were withdrawn for two years. Also, recognition for 43 others were
withdrawn, along side the principals of the schools.
Saturday Sun learnt that the council has communicated the
decisions of NEC to the state ministries of education, which is
expected to take action against the schools and principals indicted
by WAEC.
South west
Ogbe Community Secondary School, Ajegunle.
Adewole High School, Ajegunle, Onisere, Ore.
Peak International School, Ikenne.
African Pride International, Sagamu.
Roseville College, Meiran.
Premier College, Ode Irele.
Furah- Beh International College, Owo.
South south
Community Secondary School,Otuoke, Otuoba.
Community Secondary School, Diobu.
Government Secondary School, Asamabiri.
Community Secondary School, Peremabiri.
Community Comprehensive Secondary School,Enebele.
Community Secondary School, Arisaba.
Paiko Comprehensive College, Calabar.
Ebanimbin Comprehensive Heart Mixed School, Sapele.
South east
Queens of Apostles Secondary School, Obulo.
Model Comprehensive Secondary School, Isuofia
St Joseph International Secondary School, Anaku.
Wisdom Dominion International College, Ihima.
Ekwuno Memorial Secondary School, Obosi.
God Provides Secondary School, Enugu.
Madonna Secondary School, Ugbawka.
Onicha Secondary School, Ezinihitte, Mbaise.
Comprehensive Secondary School, Umunaku, Ehime, Mbano.
Comprehensive Secondary School, Ubomiri Mbatoli.
North
Aunti Nika’s School, Tudun Wada.
Government Secondary School, Basawa, Zaria.
Government Secondary School, Wara.
Government Day Secondary School, Funtua.
Barda International College, Katsina.
Government Girls College, Sokoto.
Government Secondary School, Zagun.
Gods Victory International College, Jos.
Government Secondary School, Jibiyal.
Women Center for Continuing Education, Sokoto.
recognition for 113 secondary schools nationwide, as
punishment for examination malpractices. Also, results of 30,
654 candidates, who sat for the May/June 2012 West African
Senior School Certificate Examination (WASSCE) have been
cancelled.
According to Saturday Sun findings, WAEC hasalso cancelled
individual subject results of 83, 745 candidates, released the
results of 1, 549 and barred for two years 3, 321 candidates from
sitting for the council examination over misconduct during the
school exam, in line with the rules and regulations guiding the
conduct of the examination.
The cancelled results were among the 112, 000 results of
candidates withheld for their involvement in examination
malpractice out of1, 695, 878 candidates that sat for the May/
June 2012 WASSCE.
Only 38.81 per cent (649, 156) of the total candidates that sat for
the May/June 2012 WASSCE obtained five credits in English
Language, Mathematics and three other subjects, thus were
qualified for admissions into universities and polytechnics.
The Nigeria Examinations Committee (NEC) of the council took the
far-reaching decisions in Lagos after it deliberated on evidences
(exhibits) produced by the council, which wereseized from some
candidates involved in examination malpractice.
Other decisions taken by NEC include recommendation for
sanctions against 97 supervisors/principals/other examination
personnel identified and reported to their various state ministries
of education, while 21 supervisors also indicted were blacklisted.
The WAEC committee also recommended that 465 secondary
schools be warned for aiding and abetting examination
malpractice during the 2012 May/June WASSCE, granted clemency
to eight candidates even as the certificates of 12 others were
withdrawn after they asked for restitution.
The NEC, which was chaired by the Director of Basic and
SecondaryEducation), Ministry of Education, Abuja, directed that
the allegations against 930 candidates be further investigated,
while their results are withheld.
Also, the council withdrew the recognition of six schools and
commended one staff. A breakdown of schools sanctioned
nationwide revealed that majority came from the South-South,
followed by those from the North, SouthEast and South West.
Government-owned schools top the list of those involved in exam
fraud.
The NEC recommendation shows that recognition for 21 schools
were withdrawn for two years. Also, recognition for 43 others were
withdrawn, along side the principals of the schools.
Saturday Sun learnt that the council has communicated the
decisions of NEC to the state ministries of education, which is
expected to take action against the schools and principals indicted
by WAEC.
South west
Ogbe Community Secondary School, Ajegunle.
Adewole High School, Ajegunle, Onisere, Ore.
Peak International School, Ikenne.
African Pride International, Sagamu.
Roseville College, Meiran.
Premier College, Ode Irele.
Furah- Beh International College, Owo.
South south
Community Secondary School,Otuoke, Otuoba.
Community Secondary School, Diobu.
Government Secondary School, Asamabiri.
Community Secondary School, Peremabiri.
Community Comprehensive Secondary School,Enebele.
Community Secondary School, Arisaba.
Paiko Comprehensive College, Calabar.
Ebanimbin Comprehensive Heart Mixed School, Sapele.
South east
Queens of Apostles Secondary School, Obulo.
Model Comprehensive Secondary School, Isuofia
St Joseph International Secondary School, Anaku.
Wisdom Dominion International College, Ihima.
Ekwuno Memorial Secondary School, Obosi.
God Provides Secondary School, Enugu.
Madonna Secondary School, Ugbawka.
Onicha Secondary School, Ezinihitte, Mbaise.
Comprehensive Secondary School, Umunaku, Ehime, Mbano.
Comprehensive Secondary School, Ubomiri Mbatoli.
North
Aunti Nika’s School, Tudun Wada.
Government Secondary School, Basawa, Zaria.
Government Secondary School, Wara.
Government Day Secondary School, Funtua.
Barda International College, Katsina.
Government Girls College, Sokoto.
Government Secondary School, Zagun.
Gods Victory International College, Jos.
Government Secondary School, Jibiyal.
Women Center for Continuing Education, Sokoto.
Probe me, not my aides, Obasanjo dares FG
The
cold war between former President Olusegun Obasanjo and the Goodluck
Jonathan Administration came again to the fore on Sunday at a
thanksgiving service held in honour of a former Minister of Education, Oby Ezekwesili, in Abuja.
At the service that had many eminent Nigerians, including a former Head of the Service of the Federation, Steve Oronsaye, and ex-Attorney General of Federation and Minister of Justice, Kanu Agabi, in attendance, Obasanjo said if the Goodluck Jonathan administration was keen on probing his government, it should come after him instead of people that served under him.
He also flayed the plan by the Federal Government to set up a pipeline protection agency, saying it was another avenue for corruption. But Obasanjo's comments drew the ire of the Presidency which said no past administration, either past or present, should be afraid of probe. It also advised the former President to allow Jonathan to do his work.
The former leader had at the 50th birthday thanksgiving service for Ezekwesili, said, "I have always said this, whatever you want to blame in my government, blame me; don't blame any of those people who assisted me. If there is any credit to dispense, we share it. But for anything you want to say is wrong, I was the one in charge and I was in charge." Obasanjo, whose comments were necessitated by the war of words between Ezekwesili, and the Presidency over the $67bn the Jonathan administraion inherited from his government, said he had absolute trust in those that worked under him, especially as ministers.
Ezekwesili's claim that the Federal Government squandered the sum was described by the Presidency as reckless. Turning to the former Education minister, Obasanjo said he was sure nothing would be found against her because of her integrity and commitment to public service.
He said, "Actually those who wanted to probe you (Ezekwesili), you should have asked them to go ahead because if they are honest, they would find out that the government should give you money for what you have done for this country without stealing money."
Obasanjo, who is the immediate past Chairman of the Peoples Democratic Party Board of Trustees, then faced Oronsaye, Agabi, a former Central Bank of Nigeria Governor, Charles Soludo; and ex- Minister of Information, Frank Nweke Jnr., and said, "When I look at you, I thank God for making you available to serve in my administration, to serve Nigeria and serve God at the time you did."
But he faulted Agabi's earlier call at the service for the establishment of a National Commission for Integration, saying it was not necessary. According to him, the entire 1999 Constitution is for integration.
"What else do you need. You have a constitution that is intended to integrate the country. You have the Federal Character Commissiom for instance. What is that one meant to do? It is for integration. The entire constitution is all about integrating this country. If at all we failed to use it, it can even be said that we have breached the constitution. You don't need a commission for integration," Obasanjo added.
On the planned agency for pipeline protection, the former President said it would be another avenue for corruption.
"This (Sunday) morning, I was travelling from Abeokuta and I was listening to a radio station when I heard that they (government) are going to set up an agency for pipeline protection. Now, what are the police for? What are all the security agencies that we have doing? This is another chop chop.
For those advocating change in Nigeria, Obasanjo said they must be prepared to take insults. "I just hope that we will get it right. We have no choice, we have to get it right. Let us decide individually that 'I would do what I have to do to bring about change in Nigeria.' If you do that, let me assure you, you will be called names; you will be abused; some people are hired to do that. But like Oby (Ezekwesili) say what you believe is right and stand by it.
But the Special Adviser to the President on Political Matters, Dr. Ahmed Gulak, responded to Obasanjo's comments, saying that any administration could be probed.
Gulak, in an interview with one of our correspondents, argued that even the current administration was being probed regularly by the legislative arm of government.
He added, " This administration and past administrations can be probed. Nobody should be afraid of probe."
On Obasanjo's description of the planned pipeline protection agency as another chop chop, Gulak said as an elderstatesman,
Obasanjo should not just criticise government for its sake, but should proffer solutions if indeed he loves the country. He said since Obasanjo was not the present President, he should allow the incumbent to concentrate on his job.
Gulak said, "The former President is entitled to his opinion; but he is not the President. He should allow the President to do his work. People should stop making derogatory statements about the President. There is only one President in the country today and we should all support him.
"People should not just be criticising government. As an elderstatesman, if he indeed loves this country, he should proffer solutions rather than criticising."
Some aides of the former President- Hassan Lawal, Nasir el- Rufa, Femi Fani-Kayode, and Adeyanju Bodunde - are currently being tried for various offences.
While Lawal, a former Minister of Works, is being prosecuted for N75bn fraud, el-Rufai, an ex- Minister of the Federal Capital Territory, is facing trial for irregular land allocation and abuse of office. Fani-Kayode, who is former Minister of Aviation, is facing trial for money laundering while and Bodunde, an special assistant to Obasanjo, was in 2011 arraigned for his alleged involvement in the $180m Harlibutton bribery scandal.
Ezekwesili had in her remarks, recalled how her parents moulded her by teaching her moral values. She said she could not understand why people would wanted to enjoy a life that they never worked for.
"I was born to parents who are from a humble family. My daddy was a man of uncompromising integrity. My daddy worked in Nigeria Ports Authority. He used to say to us that the NPA had become a centre of corruption. That was so many years ago. My mother talked my father out of public service
because she was afraid for him. "My mother used to go to what we call bend down boutiques in
Tejuosho Market in Lagos to buy clothes for us. She knew what they called grade one okrika (used clothes). We did not have money. We were poor but rich in values. Those values shaped everything about me. From young age, good governance and accountability mattered to me," she told the congregation.
Ezekwesil, who said she felt "a sense of completion of a certain phase in my life," added that corruption in governance today might not allow a child of similar background to survive. "In a relatively decent society, I got the kind of education that has taken me thus far. I was Minister of Education. A similarly poor child, who comes from the kind of family I came from when I was young would not have the kind of opportunities that
I had in this same nation.
"We must therefore build a decent society that does not sow this terrible seed of inequality that I see around me today. When I see the children of drivers, the gardeners and I see that they will not have the kind of education and opportunities that I had, it pains me."
On why she criticised the government recently, she replied that "democracy is incomplete without the engagement of citizens in the process. The demand for accountability and results is the right of citizens."
In his homily, Rev. Dr. William Okoye, appealed to Nigerians to shun corruption and be contented.
According to him, any nation that places values on materialism is doomed. "Life is not about material things that some of us are concerned about today. Life consists of far more than that. When people value money more than life and God, they can do anything. The life you live pursuing mundane things at the expense of God has no blessing and can't save you."
At the service that had many eminent Nigerians, including a former Head of the Service of the Federation, Steve Oronsaye, and ex-Attorney General of Federation and Minister of Justice, Kanu Agabi, in attendance, Obasanjo said if the Goodluck Jonathan administration was keen on probing his government, it should come after him instead of people that served under him.
He also flayed the plan by the Federal Government to set up a pipeline protection agency, saying it was another avenue for corruption. But Obasanjo's comments drew the ire of the Presidency which said no past administration, either past or present, should be afraid of probe. It also advised the former President to allow Jonathan to do his work.
The former leader had at the 50th birthday thanksgiving service for Ezekwesili, said, "I have always said this, whatever you want to blame in my government, blame me; don't blame any of those people who assisted me. If there is any credit to dispense, we share it. But for anything you want to say is wrong, I was the one in charge and I was in charge." Obasanjo, whose comments were necessitated by the war of words between Ezekwesili, and the Presidency over the $67bn the Jonathan administraion inherited from his government, said he had absolute trust in those that worked under him, especially as ministers.
Ezekwesili's claim that the Federal Government squandered the sum was described by the Presidency as reckless. Turning to the former Education minister, Obasanjo said he was sure nothing would be found against her because of her integrity and commitment to public service.
He said, "Actually those who wanted to probe you (Ezekwesili), you should have asked them to go ahead because if they are honest, they would find out that the government should give you money for what you have done for this country without stealing money."
Obasanjo, who is the immediate past Chairman of the Peoples Democratic Party Board of Trustees, then faced Oronsaye, Agabi, a former Central Bank of Nigeria Governor, Charles Soludo; and ex- Minister of Information, Frank Nweke Jnr., and said, "When I look at you, I thank God for making you available to serve in my administration, to serve Nigeria and serve God at the time you did."
But he faulted Agabi's earlier call at the service for the establishment of a National Commission for Integration, saying it was not necessary. According to him, the entire 1999 Constitution is for integration.
"What else do you need. You have a constitution that is intended to integrate the country. You have the Federal Character Commissiom for instance. What is that one meant to do? It is for integration. The entire constitution is all about integrating this country. If at all we failed to use it, it can even be said that we have breached the constitution. You don't need a commission for integration," Obasanjo added.
On the planned agency for pipeline protection, the former President said it would be another avenue for corruption.
"This (Sunday) morning, I was travelling from Abeokuta and I was listening to a radio station when I heard that they (government) are going to set up an agency for pipeline protection. Now, what are the police for? What are all the security agencies that we have doing? This is another chop chop.
For those advocating change in Nigeria, Obasanjo said they must be prepared to take insults. "I just hope that we will get it right. We have no choice, we have to get it right. Let us decide individually that 'I would do what I have to do to bring about change in Nigeria.' If you do that, let me assure you, you will be called names; you will be abused; some people are hired to do that. But like Oby (Ezekwesili) say what you believe is right and stand by it.
But the Special Adviser to the President on Political Matters, Dr. Ahmed Gulak, responded to Obasanjo's comments, saying that any administration could be probed.
Gulak, in an interview with one of our correspondents, argued that even the current administration was being probed regularly by the legislative arm of government.
He added, " This administration and past administrations can be probed. Nobody should be afraid of probe."
On Obasanjo's description of the planned pipeline protection agency as another chop chop, Gulak said as an elderstatesman,
Obasanjo should not just criticise government for its sake, but should proffer solutions if indeed he loves the country. He said since Obasanjo was not the present President, he should allow the incumbent to concentrate on his job.
Gulak said, "The former President is entitled to his opinion; but he is not the President. He should allow the President to do his work. People should stop making derogatory statements about the President. There is only one President in the country today and we should all support him.
"People should not just be criticising government. As an elderstatesman, if he indeed loves this country, he should proffer solutions rather than criticising."
Some aides of the former President- Hassan Lawal, Nasir el- Rufa, Femi Fani-Kayode, and Adeyanju Bodunde - are currently being tried for various offences.
While Lawal, a former Minister of Works, is being prosecuted for N75bn fraud, el-Rufai, an ex- Minister of the Federal Capital Territory, is facing trial for irregular land allocation and abuse of office. Fani-Kayode, who is former Minister of Aviation, is facing trial for money laundering while and Bodunde, an special assistant to Obasanjo, was in 2011 arraigned for his alleged involvement in the $180m Harlibutton bribery scandal.
Ezekwesili had in her remarks, recalled how her parents moulded her by teaching her moral values. She said she could not understand why people would wanted to enjoy a life that they never worked for.
"I was born to parents who are from a humble family. My daddy was a man of uncompromising integrity. My daddy worked in Nigeria Ports Authority. He used to say to us that the NPA had become a centre of corruption. That was so many years ago. My mother talked my father out of public service
because she was afraid for him. "My mother used to go to what we call bend down boutiques in
Tejuosho Market in Lagos to buy clothes for us. She knew what they called grade one okrika (used clothes). We did not have money. We were poor but rich in values. Those values shaped everything about me. From young age, good governance and accountability mattered to me," she told the congregation.
Ezekwesil, who said she felt "a sense of completion of a certain phase in my life," added that corruption in governance today might not allow a child of similar background to survive. "In a relatively decent society, I got the kind of education that has taken me thus far. I was Minister of Education. A similarly poor child, who comes from the kind of family I came from when I was young would not have the kind of opportunities that
I had in this same nation.
"We must therefore build a decent society that does not sow this terrible seed of inequality that I see around me today. When I see the children of drivers, the gardeners and I see that they will not have the kind of education and opportunities that I had, it pains me."
On why she criticised the government recently, she replied that "democracy is incomplete without the engagement of citizens in the process. The demand for accountability and results is the right of citizens."
In his homily, Rev. Dr. William Okoye, appealed to Nigerians to shun corruption and be contented.
According to him, any nation that places values on materialism is doomed. "Life is not about material things that some of us are concerned about today. Life consists of far more than that. When people value money more than life and God, they can do anything. The life you live pursuing mundane things at the expense of God has no blessing and can't save you."
ASUP begins indefinite strike
The Academic Staff Union of Polytechnics (ASUP) will today embark on an
indefinite strike, following failure of the government to implement
agreements on issues affecting polytechnic education in the country.
The indefinite strike followed end of a seven-day warning strike which ended weekend.
The National President of ASUP, Mr. Chibuzor Asomugha, said that the indefinite strike had become unavoidable because the meeting the union had with Secretary to the Federal Government, Senator Pius Anyim, yielded no positive results.
He said the strike would be called off only when the government addressed all the demands raised by the union, urging all polytechnic lecturers across the country to abide by the directive to embark on indefinite strike.
The indefinite strike followed end of a seven-day warning strike which ended weekend.
The National President of ASUP, Mr. Chibuzor Asomugha, said that the indefinite strike had become unavoidable because the meeting the union had with Secretary to the Federal Government, Senator Pius Anyim, yielded no positive results.
He said the strike would be called off only when the government addressed all the demands raised by the union, urging all polytechnic lecturers across the country to abide by the directive to embark on indefinite strike.
Friday, 26 April 2013
SAD : Killer cops’ victim, (Korie), was set to wed
The motorist, who was killed by policemen in the Mushin area of Lagos State last Thursday was to get
married by the last quarter of 2013.
PUNCH Metro had reported last Friday that Santos Korie (Nwabueze Korie), was killed in his Toyota
Highlander Sports Utility Vehicle around Daleko Bridge. The cousin of the deceased, Henry Madu, told our correspondent that Korie was engaged and was planning to get married this year.
He said, “He was engaged and was planning his traditional wedding already. His fiancee is a National Youth Service Corps member and he was waiting for her to finish this July before getting married to her. “She has been crying since the incident occurred and we have been consoling her.”
Madu told our correspondent that Korie’s death was painful because he was the breadwinner to his siblings.
He said, “He has six siblings but their parents are late. Although he was the second child, he was the breadwinner. “He was only 38 years old before his life was cut short by those who should have protected him.”
The police had also claimed that Korie was probably killed by hired killers in police uniform.
Madu however faulted this theory, saying his cousin was never involved in any illegitimate business and did not have enemies that would want to eliminate him.
He said the circumstances surrounding Korie’s death showed that he was killed by overzealous policemen. He said although he did not witness the killing, the deceased’s friend, Tochukwu Ofogene, told him that
he (Korie) was shot in the face after being stopped by policemen.
He said, “My cousin was driving while his friend, Tochukwu, was on the passenger side. They were coming from FESTAC but on getting to Iyana-Isolo, they noticed a road-block due to an ongoing construction.
“They wanted to ascend the Daleko Bridge so a newspaper vendor advised them to drive against
traffic in order to connect the bridge. It was while they were about ascending that the two policemen
accosted them.
“A policeman stood by the driver side while the other stood by the passenger side. As he was trying to
explain himself, they cocked their guns. As he was about to park properly, the policeman by his side
opened fire. Then they both fled.”
Madu said Korie’s vehicle lost control and rammed into a truck carrying sachet water. He said the
matter was later reported at Area D Command. Madu said officials of the Lagos State Traffic
Management Authority also brought two guns believed to have been dumped by the policemen to
the Area D Command. He said the deceased’s corpse was deposited at the Lagos University Teaching Hospital mortuary after it had been rejected at Isolo General Hospital.
He said, “It was at Area D that I got involved. I saw my cousin’s corpse stained with blood all over. It was a gory sight. After depositing money at the mortuary, we were all taken to the state police command headquarters. “By then, two policemen and one civilian, Sylvester had been arrested. We were taken to the Commissioner of Police’s office where he asked the policemen if they were the ones that killed by cousin
but they denied it.
“The CP however ordered that they be detained.” While trying not to betray his emotion, Madu recalled the last time he saw the deceased. He said they were very close and had even planned his own wedding together.
He said, “I spent the Easter with him and we were together four days before he was killed. We spoke
about many things. “He said he wanted to make sure that his younger ones would not suffer the way he did. He had a good heart.
“In fact, he told me that he would hire a live band to come and perform at my church wedding which is due to hold this October.” PUNCH Metro learnt that detectives at the SCID had visited the crime scene and had also taken pictures of the vehicle.
It was learnt that an autopsy had been conducted on the deceased.
A copy of the death certificate made available to our correspondent said Korie died as a result of a
“perforating gunshot injury to the left zygomatic area with skull fracture, subarachoin haemorrhage and cereberal contusion.”
The acting spokesperson for the state police command, Damascus Ozoani, said investigations
were ongoing.
Source : PUNCH
married by the last quarter of 2013.
PUNCH Metro had reported last Friday that Santos Korie (Nwabueze Korie), was killed in his Toyota
Highlander Sports Utility Vehicle around Daleko Bridge. The cousin of the deceased, Henry Madu, told our correspondent that Korie was engaged and was planning to get married this year.
He said, “He was engaged and was planning his traditional wedding already. His fiancee is a National Youth Service Corps member and he was waiting for her to finish this July before getting married to her. “She has been crying since the incident occurred and we have been consoling her.”
Madu told our correspondent that Korie’s death was painful because he was the breadwinner to his siblings.
He said, “He has six siblings but their parents are late. Although he was the second child, he was the breadwinner. “He was only 38 years old before his life was cut short by those who should have protected him.”
The police had also claimed that Korie was probably killed by hired killers in police uniform.
Madu however faulted this theory, saying his cousin was never involved in any illegitimate business and did not have enemies that would want to eliminate him.
He said the circumstances surrounding Korie’s death showed that he was killed by overzealous policemen. He said although he did not witness the killing, the deceased’s friend, Tochukwu Ofogene, told him that
he (Korie) was shot in the face after being stopped by policemen.
He said, “My cousin was driving while his friend, Tochukwu, was on the passenger side. They were coming from FESTAC but on getting to Iyana-Isolo, they noticed a road-block due to an ongoing construction.
“They wanted to ascend the Daleko Bridge so a newspaper vendor advised them to drive against
traffic in order to connect the bridge. It was while they were about ascending that the two policemen
accosted them.
“A policeman stood by the driver side while the other stood by the passenger side. As he was trying to
explain himself, they cocked their guns. As he was about to park properly, the policeman by his side
opened fire. Then they both fled.”
Madu said Korie’s vehicle lost control and rammed into a truck carrying sachet water. He said the
matter was later reported at Area D Command. Madu said officials of the Lagos State Traffic
Management Authority also brought two guns believed to have been dumped by the policemen to
the Area D Command. He said the deceased’s corpse was deposited at the Lagos University Teaching Hospital mortuary after it had been rejected at Isolo General Hospital.
He said, “It was at Area D that I got involved. I saw my cousin’s corpse stained with blood all over. It was a gory sight. After depositing money at the mortuary, we were all taken to the state police command headquarters. “By then, two policemen and one civilian, Sylvester had been arrested. We were taken to the Commissioner of Police’s office where he asked the policemen if they were the ones that killed by cousin
but they denied it.
“The CP however ordered that they be detained.” While trying not to betray his emotion, Madu recalled the last time he saw the deceased. He said they were very close and had even planned his own wedding together.
He said, “I spent the Easter with him and we were together four days before he was killed. We spoke
about many things. “He said he wanted to make sure that his younger ones would not suffer the way he did. He had a good heart.
“In fact, he told me that he would hire a live band to come and perform at my church wedding which is due to hold this October.” PUNCH Metro learnt that detectives at the SCID had visited the crime scene and had also taken pictures of the vehicle.
It was learnt that an autopsy had been conducted on the deceased.
A copy of the death certificate made available to our correspondent said Korie died as a result of a
“perforating gunshot injury to the left zygomatic area with skull fracture, subarachoin haemorrhage and cereberal contusion.”
The acting spokesperson for the state police command, Damascus Ozoani, said investigations
were ongoing.
Source : PUNCH
Tragic : 25-year-old DJ(Olamide) murdered over rumoured N2million deal in Lagos
The residents of Bank Olemoh Street in Surulere, Lagos are still in shock over the killing of a 25-year-
old DJ, Olamide George, on Monday by two unknown gunmen.
DailyPost gathered that George was shot dead at about 2pm while he was with his friends under a tree, popularly called Abe Igi. Two resident, who pleaded anonymity, said the deceased was an ‘internet businessman’. One of them said the likely motivation for his assassination was a N2 million deal he just concluded.
They added that George just rented and furnished an apartment at Apapa Road. DailyPost learnt that George allegedly answered a call few minutes before he was killed and his caller requested to know where he was. George had replied the caller that he was at Abe Igi.
The deceased’s father, Mr Gbolahan George said, “I was told that the assassins were four and were in
Keke Maruwa (tricycle). They parked at the entrance of the street; two got down and walked to
where Olamide sat with his friends. The one with the gun did not know him, so the other person who
accompanied him pointed at Olamide. “Immediately Olamide was identified, he was shot in the head and on the chest.” “I was called around 2:30pm and told that my son’s body was at the morgue in Lagos University
Teaching Hospital. He was declared dead on arrival at the hospital. I have reported the case at Area C
Police Command.”
Mr Gbolahan George however refuted claims that his son was an internet fraudster. He said, “He is a DJ, and not a scammer. And he is very gentle and pleasant. He wanted to write JAMB and get into Lagos State University.
“Olamide was also about to wed his girlfriend, Yetunde Adeyeri, who is five months pregnant before
his untimely death. And that was why I gave him N500,000 to rent a one-room self-contained apartment at Apapa Road.”
The Chairman of the Community Development Area, Mr. Wilson Ojei, who described the tragic incident
as unfortunate said, “I know Olamide as an easy young man trying to survive.
Source : Dailypost
old DJ, Olamide George, on Monday by two unknown gunmen.
DailyPost gathered that George was shot dead at about 2pm while he was with his friends under a tree, popularly called Abe Igi. Two resident, who pleaded anonymity, said the deceased was an ‘internet businessman’. One of them said the likely motivation for his assassination was a N2 million deal he just concluded.
They added that George just rented and furnished an apartment at Apapa Road. DailyPost learnt that George allegedly answered a call few minutes before he was killed and his caller requested to know where he was. George had replied the caller that he was at Abe Igi.
The deceased’s father, Mr Gbolahan George said, “I was told that the assassins were four and were in
Keke Maruwa (tricycle). They parked at the entrance of the street; two got down and walked to
where Olamide sat with his friends. The one with the gun did not know him, so the other person who
accompanied him pointed at Olamide. “Immediately Olamide was identified, he was shot in the head and on the chest.” “I was called around 2:30pm and told that my son’s body was at the morgue in Lagos University
Teaching Hospital. He was declared dead on arrival at the hospital. I have reported the case at Area C
Police Command.”
Mr Gbolahan George however refuted claims that his son was an internet fraudster. He said, “He is a DJ, and not a scammer. And he is very gentle and pleasant. He wanted to write JAMB and get into Lagos State University.
“Olamide was also about to wed his girlfriend, Yetunde Adeyeri, who is five months pregnant before
his untimely death. And that was why I gave him N500,000 to rent a one-room self-contained apartment at Apapa Road.”
The Chairman of the Community Development Area, Mr. Wilson Ojei, who described the tragic incident
as unfortunate said, “I know Olamide as an easy young man trying to survive.
Source : Dailypost
HOW 21-year-old KIDNAPPED, RAPED 53-year-old WOMAN
Troops of Sector 1, Operation Pulo Shield, Effurun Nigerian Army Barracks, last Thursday, acting on a tip-off, rescued a female senior staff of the Petroleum Training Institute (PTI), Effurun, at PTI Junction, Delta State, from the hands of suspected kidnappers cum rapists. EBENEZER ADUROKIYA reports the claims and counterclaims that ensued during their parade.
The story of a 21-year-old boy, who comfortably rides on a Lexus car worth N4.5 million at Effurun, tells more about a generation needing redemption.
The young man, Mr Tadafe Egwolo, was last Thursday, arrested by troops of Sector 1, Operation Pulo Shield, Effurun, along with his friend, Mr Kelvin Uvwie, for kidnapping, raping and demanding N10 million ransom from a 53-year-old woman.
The woman, who was allegedly raped by Egwolo at Room 602, Casa De Perdro Hotel located at Effurun, last Tuesday, was subjected to a dehumanizing state. She was, according to the senior staffer in PTI, at gun point, picked up from PTI junction at Effurun and taken to a hotel room, where she was stripped naked
and violated in the presence of Egwolo’s friend, Uvwie; who in turn, acted as a paparazzi. She was not only sexually molested, but subjected to a bestial state of sucking the penis of her traducer during the forced sex bout.
Thereafter, the mother of two, whose first daughter got married few months back, was requested to produce N10 million in few hours or face blackmail and/or death if she failed to concur. The woman, while speaking with journalists on Saturday, said apart from being a worker at PTI, she was a children’s teacher in one of the churches in Warri, adding that she had never met the suspects before, let alone having a romantic affair with them.
It was, however, gathered that apart from being single, she lived with her two daughters before one of them got married few months ago.
But Egwolo, whose father said he was 21 and not 25 years old as earlier claimed during interrogation by journalists, hinted that the case between him and the woman, was one of love gone sour, over his unpaid monthly salary arrears. The agreed monthly payment was N150, 000, for bringing sexual satisfaction to the
woman.
While giving the genesis of the relationship, the gigolo, Egwolo, insisted, “I’m here because of somebody I’ve been dating for one year and eight months. Her name is Jully Momoh (not real name).
I’m 25 years old and we met when I paid a visit to PTI. I was wearing dreadlocks then, so she saw me and said that she liked me. She said that I looked handsome and gave me her address, asking me to meet her in her office. Before we started dating, she said she would pay me monthly and since we started dating, we
used to meet at different hotels.
“The last sex we had which turned sour, was at Room 602, Casa De Pedro. Sometimes she would pay me between N1, 000 and N2, 000, but she later promised to increase my payment,” he
explained.
Egwolo, who claimed to be a Business Administration student at the Auchi Polytechnic, Edo State, said he and his lover agreed on N150, 000 monthly for his services. According to him, the centre could no longer hold when she was not fulfilling her own part of the bargain and was rather promising him to wait till November this year, for his arrears.
Unsatisfied with the arrangement, Egwolo said he decided to set her up by taking her to the hotel room while he had arranged with his friend, Uvwie, to hide in the wardrobe and take snapshots of them. He said he intended to use the photographs to intimidate her to redeem her pledge.
“Sometimes she takes very good care of me and she promised to pay me N150, 000 per month. But she kept deceiving me every time I went to her office and yet she still expected me to continue to please her sexually. Later, I was worried and I confided in one of my friends on what to do. So we agreed on taking snapshots of me having sex with her, as a tool to retrieve the money from her,” Egwolo, who said he had lost his fiancée to the incident, lamented.
Mr Uvwie, on his part, did not take part in the actual purported rape, but joined his friend to take the snapshots of the sex scenes. He denied ever being promised any amount for his job, claiming
initially that he was a student of University of Abuja, studying an non-existent course, before he later said he was also into dredging, having finished studying Oil and Gas in India. Egwolo, however, begged for pardon while swearing before press men that her victim was the first ever sugar mummy he had ever dated, appealing to youths to beware of such fast business as the end may not be as envisaged.
“I would advise Nigerian youths not to do such things, because what you never planned for is what you would get. But I never wanted to blackmail her, I just wanted to threaten her so as to get my money. I threatened her that I would show the photographs to her children if she did not give me my money. I did not kidnap her. She paid the hotel bill herself. Though she begged me to wait till October to collect my money, I was not ready for such bargain,” Egwolo affirmed.
Meanwhile, afraid of being blackmailed or even killed, after the threats, the woman reported the case to the Joint Task Force (JTF) and was asked to play along. The JTF laid an ambush for the culprits when they came to the woman’s office at PTI to collect the ransom she claimed they demanded and the suspects were
nabbed.
Preliminary investigations, according to Commanding Officer, 3rd Battalion, Nigerian Army, Effurun, Lt. Col. Otu, while briefing the press after the parade of the suspects on Saturday, showed that the duo had confessed to committing the crime. According to Lt. Col. Otu, the suspects came in a Lexus car with
registration number; Delta EFR 02AA which belongs to Egwolo to PTI where they were to pick up their ransom.
While informing that more investigations would still be carried out on the case, Lt Col Otu gave other items recovered from them to include one Blackberry, two Nokia phones and one LG phone, saying that the suspected toy gun used for the action was yet to be retrieved.
He added that the suspects would be handed over to the appropriate quarters for prosecution after the JTF was through with them.
The story of a 21-year-old boy, who comfortably rides on a Lexus car worth N4.5 million at Effurun, tells more about a generation needing redemption.
The young man, Mr Tadafe Egwolo, was last Thursday, arrested by troops of Sector 1, Operation Pulo Shield, Effurun, along with his friend, Mr Kelvin Uvwie, for kidnapping, raping and demanding N10 million ransom from a 53-year-old woman.
The woman, who was allegedly raped by Egwolo at Room 602, Casa De Perdro Hotel located at Effurun, last Tuesday, was subjected to a dehumanizing state. She was, according to the senior staffer in PTI, at gun point, picked up from PTI junction at Effurun and taken to a hotel room, where she was stripped naked
and violated in the presence of Egwolo’s friend, Uvwie; who in turn, acted as a paparazzi. She was not only sexually molested, but subjected to a bestial state of sucking the penis of her traducer during the forced sex bout.
Thereafter, the mother of two, whose first daughter got married few months back, was requested to produce N10 million in few hours or face blackmail and/or death if she failed to concur. The woman, while speaking with journalists on Saturday, said apart from being a worker at PTI, she was a children’s teacher in one of the churches in Warri, adding that she had never met the suspects before, let alone having a romantic affair with them.
It was, however, gathered that apart from being single, she lived with her two daughters before one of them got married few months ago.
But Egwolo, whose father said he was 21 and not 25 years old as earlier claimed during interrogation by journalists, hinted that the case between him and the woman, was one of love gone sour, over his unpaid monthly salary arrears. The agreed monthly payment was N150, 000, for bringing sexual satisfaction to the
woman.
While giving the genesis of the relationship, the gigolo, Egwolo, insisted, “I’m here because of somebody I’ve been dating for one year and eight months. Her name is Jully Momoh (not real name).
I’m 25 years old and we met when I paid a visit to PTI. I was wearing dreadlocks then, so she saw me and said that she liked me. She said that I looked handsome and gave me her address, asking me to meet her in her office. Before we started dating, she said she would pay me monthly and since we started dating, we
used to meet at different hotels.
“The last sex we had which turned sour, was at Room 602, Casa De Pedro. Sometimes she would pay me between N1, 000 and N2, 000, but she later promised to increase my payment,” he
explained.
Egwolo, who claimed to be a Business Administration student at the Auchi Polytechnic, Edo State, said he and his lover agreed on N150, 000 monthly for his services. According to him, the centre could no longer hold when she was not fulfilling her own part of the bargain and was rather promising him to wait till November this year, for his arrears.
Unsatisfied with the arrangement, Egwolo said he decided to set her up by taking her to the hotel room while he had arranged with his friend, Uvwie, to hide in the wardrobe and take snapshots of them. He said he intended to use the photographs to intimidate her to redeem her pledge.
“Sometimes she takes very good care of me and she promised to pay me N150, 000 per month. But she kept deceiving me every time I went to her office and yet she still expected me to continue to please her sexually. Later, I was worried and I confided in one of my friends on what to do. So we agreed on taking snapshots of me having sex with her, as a tool to retrieve the money from her,” Egwolo, who said he had lost his fiancée to the incident, lamented.
Mr Uvwie, on his part, did not take part in the actual purported rape, but joined his friend to take the snapshots of the sex scenes. He denied ever being promised any amount for his job, claiming
initially that he was a student of University of Abuja, studying an non-existent course, before he later said he was also into dredging, having finished studying Oil and Gas in India. Egwolo, however, begged for pardon while swearing before press men that her victim was the first ever sugar mummy he had ever dated, appealing to youths to beware of such fast business as the end may not be as envisaged.
“I would advise Nigerian youths not to do such things, because what you never planned for is what you would get. But I never wanted to blackmail her, I just wanted to threaten her so as to get my money. I threatened her that I would show the photographs to her children if she did not give me my money. I did not kidnap her. She paid the hotel bill herself. Though she begged me to wait till October to collect my money, I was not ready for such bargain,” Egwolo affirmed.
Meanwhile, afraid of being blackmailed or even killed, after the threats, the woman reported the case to the Joint Task Force (JTF) and was asked to play along. The JTF laid an ambush for the culprits when they came to the woman’s office at PTI to collect the ransom she claimed they demanded and the suspects were
nabbed.
Preliminary investigations, according to Commanding Officer, 3rd Battalion, Nigerian Army, Effurun, Lt. Col. Otu, while briefing the press after the parade of the suspects on Saturday, showed that the duo had confessed to committing the crime. According to Lt. Col. Otu, the suspects came in a Lexus car with
registration number; Delta EFR 02AA which belongs to Egwolo to PTI where they were to pick up their ransom.
While informing that more investigations would still be carried out on the case, Lt Col Otu gave other items recovered from them to include one Blackberry, two Nokia phones and one LG phone, saying that the suspected toy gun used for the action was yet to be retrieved.
He added that the suspects would be handed over to the appropriate quarters for prosecution after the JTF was through with them.
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